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she lied to me about dieing
hey ..ive got a real prob ...my friend lied to me about having breast cancer not once but twice and i got so fed up with her and i told her that i didnt wanna be friends with her if shes gunna lie to me ! and she said that she was going into operation to have things checked ! but a couple days later i asked her how she was and wut she was doing this week and she said working all week when she first told me that she was going to have an operation! like i said u knoe wut i dont wanna hang out with sumone whos gunna lie to me constantly ! and i hung up on her ! was i too harsh ? plz help should i try to patch things up with her !
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maybe shes just really scared about having it so shes lieing to you and her self to pretend that she doesnt have it to make her feel better.. you shouldnt be mean to her, shes probably just really confused and scared!!
-xxoBrianna
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Thats very harsh. Yes your friend may have lied to you but cmon she has a life threatining diases and your just gonna say you dont want to be friends with her? Another reason she may have lied to you is that she doesent want you to go on worring all the time..mabey she was planning on keeping it a secret untill people needed to know..like if things got bad. My advice is to comfort her. Let her know that you are there no matter what and she doesent have to tell you anything that she doesent want to.
Hope I helped
Britt
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No you weren't too harsh!!!That's a terrible thing to lie about!!Lieing is terrible period,but that topic is really taking it to a whole new level!!It sounds to me like she's craving attention.However,she's going about it in all the wrong ways!Have you ever asked her WHY she lies about this??Hope to hear back from you soon!!
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yea of course u should patch things up with her. MAybe she lied to u b/c she didn't wanna talk about her havin breast cancer maybe its uncomfortable for her to talk about. i mean ya she lied to you but u all are suppose to be friends and she going to have an operation and i'm sure shes stressed enough she probably doesn't want to be in a fight with a friend. i hope you all work your stuff out *kisses* Ashley
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Lieing about having cancer is really bad, and not funny at all. If it was just a little lie, then you could let it go. But to tell huge lies like this (you were probably very upset when she told you) is just not something real friends do. Give her one more chance, and the next time she lies, tell her the friendship is over.
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she probably lied to u because she didn't want u to worry about her. thats how a lot of ppl get sumtimes, they dont want the sympathy where ppl will b like omg r u ok all the time. they r still ppl and want to b normal except they have a disease that will kill them sumtime. its gr8 that u cared for her but sum ppl dont like all that attention. im just saying that.
u should patch things up wit her. even tho she mite not like a lot of attention called up to her disease she probably wants sum1 to b there for her. its kinda confusing but u should b there without askin all the time about her cancer. i had a cousin who died of many cancers and she just liked to talk to us about things instead of how she was feeling. we sat with her and watched cooking shows or sumthin else. it was nice.
hope i helped!
*Oreo*
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look the only way you can patch things up is by talking to her...what's her problem!!!and ask her why she kept lying and make sure she doesn't lie to you anymore!!
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