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She was flirting with him !!
hello im a 14/f goin on 15 in like 6 months ..ne ways i like this guy well call him Jimmy and my friend well call her Julie ...ne ways shes in his buisness class and said that he likes me and i was realli happy cuz i realli like this guy but then i herd that Julie was flirting with Jimmy but i didnt beleive it when i herd it cuz we were supposed to be best friends but then i saw then coming down the stairs and i saw Julie have her arm around Jimmy even when she saw me she kept her Arm around him . i guess she was flirting with him and i was so mad at her i didnt talk to her for weeks and she knoes im mad at her but the thing is is she has a bf should i tell her bf ? cuz if i dont then shell continue flirting with Jimmy and other guys but if i do then he could dump her and i could loose a realli good friend
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UmM.. i think you shouldnt tell her boyfrind because she is just flirting and some people do that by nature.. and that would make herr be mad at you too when all you have to do is just GiT uR mAn bAk! l0l.. dont git into her business to help you.. you kno? just instead of tattletailin on her.. you shuud WuRk It furr ur gy..
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well.....if julie is supposed 2 b ur bf....den she shud kno her boundaries. Itz just common law dat u just dunt go after ur best friends boyfriend or ex boyfriend. wut makes it even worst iz dat she already has a boyfriend. i say dunt tell her boyfriend just talk 2 her about it n tell her how u fell. Let her kno dat her actions r hurting u. N warn her dat sooner or later hez bound 2 find out. N dat wutz shes doin iz wrong. $ u my advice iz dunt call pl like dat ur friends bcuz dey obviously dunt show any sign of friendship. If she continues dis just let her go. N sooner or later she'll get caught. Second if u really like Jimmy den u shud b able 2 tell him dat n tak 2 him about it, dunt leave it up 2 sum1 els e2 handle ur business 4 u. hop i helped=)
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like the other person said, some people just flirt! i flirt with everybody and i've even admitted it to my boyfriend! anyways here's what you should do:
talk to her about it and ask her if she means to flirt with him, ask her nicely if she could make an effort to stop flirting with him.
then if she doesn't stop then you talk to her again.
if it *still* doesn't stop then you do plan z, you flirt with HER boyfriend!!! :D when she confronts you and asks what the heck you think you're doing you carefully explain to her that you did *try* to get her to stop flirting with jimmy but she wouldn't stop. yeah that should work!!!!!! lol
keep me posted!
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theres a lot of reasons why your friend could be flirting with him. She probably doesnt even realize it.. some people are just pathological flirts and it means nothing to them. and im sure if you talk to her about how you feel when she flirts with "jimmy" then she will back off if shes really your friend. and i wouldnt tell her b/f if i was you because if they did break up then that would just give her more of a reason to go after "jimmy" just to get back at you. so just tell her how u feel about her being all over him..
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A Real friend wouldn't do that to you. But then again, she could have been jealous or even liked "Jimmy" as much as you did without telling you.
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Don't tell her boyfriend.Unless you are ready for war with your friend.Ask "Julie" if she really likes "Jimmy".If the answer is yes....ask "Julie" is she willing to break up with her boyfriend for "Jimmy"If the answer is no.....ask her if she'll set up you and "Jimmy".Maybe then she'll get the hint that you really want to be with "Jimmy" and hopefully she might back down.
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dun tell her bf..let her tell him herself...the problem is that u should ask her what's been going on between her and jimmy and ask jimmmy whether he has feelings for julie...and if they both are having an affair u can just tell her bf and find someone new cuz you can't be happy with that kind of man!
jimah :)
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