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iM 16 AnD a JuNiOr @ MaCaRtHuR HiGh ScHoOL! i
E-mail: melissalynn2006@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: SaN-AnToNiO. TeXaS
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Member Since: June 29, 2004
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okay there is this kid i love so much . i knoe i am in love with him i talk to him everyday, i flirt with him but .. its my best friend`s exboyfriend .. i dont knoe what to do cuz i love my best friend shes like my sister .. and i dont want to tell her so i dont knoe what to do (link)
if its your best friends ex i think there is no problem with getting with him.. but i think you def. need to talk to her about it before it goes ne further. im sure she wont be too mad because i had this same problem and my friend was fine with it. you just need to talk to her about it before it goes on for too long. hope i helped!


OKAY SEE I WANT CLOTHES THAT MY PARENTS WON'T LET ME WEAR!WHAT SHOULD I DO?

-bubba78

P.S.I'm a girl so please help me! (link)
you should prob. talk to your parents before going behin their backs and say that you want to wear whatever clothes you want as long as they arent TOO slutty if thats what theyre worried about but if that doesnt work then you could just wear something out of the house.. get to school or wherever your going a little early and go to the bathroom and change into whatever it is you wanna wear.


Everytime i a guy likes me, and i like him...i back off even though i like him!! idk why! i'll like go out with them, then break up...agghh idk what to do!:-/ (link)
i think you probably just like the chase.. you want what you cant have and once u get it u just dont know what to do with it. i think you should just play it single and wait to mature a little bit so u can be commited.. but that doesnt mean u cant have fun with the boys until then ;)


me and jenny and ruth have been best mates since september when we met. ruth and jenny knew each other from junior school so they were alredy quite close. recently they've been going off a lot together and everyone thinks they're best mates and that i'm just a tag a long. they'll be in the same class next year and they both do a lot of sport together but i hate sport. also they lvie close to each other but i live on the other side of town. i thought it was getting better but today i found out that jenny dumped her boyfriend ages ago with ruth but i didnt know and i thought she would've told me something like that. i tried talking to them but i hasnt helped. what can i do? (link)
people make new friends all the time and theres not really anything you can do about it. i would say that you should talk to them about it and say that you feel left out.. and make more of an effort for all 3 of you to hang out. who said that 3 people cant be best friends.. its hard yes but if yall really try it can work out! hope it helps


ok, i've been gettin vaginal discharge, and i haven't started my period, is this normal to get it before u start your period, does this mean that i'll soon be gettin my period, and if so are there any other ways to kno that your period mite be startin??
please help
if it makes a difference im 13/f/nc and ill be 14 in the 1st wk of Nov.
thx a bunch!!
~*~*~*wondering*~*~*~ (link)
its totally normal! i had that before i started my period and i even had cramps before i started my period. and i didnt start till my freshman year in high school.. so hang in there it will come soon enough!


hello im a 14/f goin on 15 in like 6 months ..ne ways i like this guy well call him Jimmy and my friend well call her Julie ...ne ways shes in his buisness class and said that he likes me and i was realli happy cuz i realli like this guy but then i herd that Julie was flirting with Jimmy but i didnt beleive it when i herd it cuz we were supposed to be best friends but then i saw then coming down the stairs and i saw Julie have her arm around Jimmy even when she saw me she kept her Arm around him . i guess she was flirting with him and i was so mad at her i didnt talk to her for weeks and she knoes im mad at her but the thing is is she has a bf should i tell her bf ? cuz if i dont then shell continue flirting with Jimmy and other guys but if i do then he could dump her and i could loose a realli good friend (link)
theres a lot of reasons why your friend could be flirting with him. She probably doesnt even realize it.. some people are just pathological flirts and it means nothing to them. and im sure if you talk to her about how you feel when she flirts with "jimmy" then she will back off if shes really your friend. and i wouldnt tell her b/f if i was you because if they did break up then that would just give her more of a reason to go after "jimmy" just to get back at you. so just tell her how u feel about her being all over him..


Hey all my friends think im a total weirdo cuz i love country music ! i dont think i am i only like the new stuff like keith urban and gretchen wilson i hate the oldies tho ! whos with me does ne one else like country music ! (link)
oMg i love country music!! just because your friends dont like it doesnt mean you cant. just dont listen to it around them if you dont want them to think your a weirdo. and im sure its not even that big of a deal to them that you listen to country music. and rock on redneck woman;)


My boyfriend always keeps breaking my heart.. well actully my x-boyfriend he dumped me 6/29/04
I feel so heartbroken.. why did he? He didnt give me a reason.. How do I erase him from my memory.. memories of me & him are all around..
it hurts so bad I need him to go away please make him go away.. Dont hurt him but just please... help me make him go away I cry whenever I think about him.. I cry whenever I see him.. I cry when I see somethign that is his.. I just cry and I cant stop.. I lvoe someone else but It's too soon to go for them and I dont even think he likes me.. but Alex is still on my mind and I cant let go

+tatteredWings+ :'( (link)
theres nothing you really can do:( no matter what you do you will always have those memories and if he was your first love then you probably will never forget him. but that doesnt mean you cant move on. you need to get to the point where u can say to yourself im better off without him. you cant make someone want to be with you and thats the hardest thing to deal with. but you can do it! just surround yourself with good friends.. and keep busy! the more things your doing the less time u have to lay around and mope about him! hope it helps!




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