ok well my friend and i always have liked the same guyz pritty much and then shes always able to go out and tell them and she ends up going out with them and i get all sad n stuff and then after they brake up i dont like that guy anymore and then we end up liking the same guy again ((cuz we tell eachother who we like)) and she did the same thing again and then now she likes one guy and i like another guy and she flirts with the guy that i like but shes always saying that she doesnt like him and the guy that i like is the guy that ive felt best about so far and then he might like her but im not shur and i really want to be her friend still its just im pissed off about the fact that she keeps stealing the guyz that i like and thats why my friends keep making fun of me that i still dont have a boyfriend yet and i dont know wut to do? wut should i do?
jimah answered Monday June 28 2004, 8:40 am: yo kid..i used to hav the same prob as u do and the only way that you can fix the prob...is to tell ur friend that u need a chance to be with the person u like...n try for once not to be shy to ask!! cuz you will end up happily!! [ jimah's advice column | Ask jimah A Question ]
xo_dream answered Monday June 28 2004, 5:14 am: Well, you could just stop telling her who you like .. or get the guy before she has the chance to take him. :o)
But I think you need to talk to her about what she's doing and let her know that it's really bothering you and you wish she'd stop doing it.
LilMia811 answered Monday June 28 2004, 1:28 am: First of all, DON'T TELL YOUR FREIND WHO YOU LIKE. That way she can stop going for your guys. And then you have to get the guts to tell the guy you like how you feel so you can have him. And then when the 2 of you are together, then let your friend know you like him and he's your boyfriend now. I'm sure she won't try to snatch him if he's your boyfriend. Good Luck! :)
AsK_LaNi answered Monday June 28 2004, 1:22 am: well this is a problem, huh? well first thing you gotta do is confront her. tell her how you feel like you dont even have a chance. and second, think about why she's getting all the guyz..cuz she goes up to them! i know it might be scary but try it. but comfortable and so say hello, strike a up convo before she can. i dont want to say beat her at her own game, but its sorta the same concept. but remember, never let a guy come between you and your friends....like i heard somewhere 'Friends are forever, guyz are whatever'...words to live by...sometimes ;)
Brandonsbabe1111 answered Sunday June 27 2004, 10:26 pm: well you should tell your friend whats goin on!! and that she should back off your guys!! ya knoww.. i use to have a friend like thatt but it was a while ago, and i told her straight up 'look i like him, can you please just give me soom room or somethingg!! you stay takin my guys and im sick of it, its not a compatition!! so just let me get some guys for once' i guess she was kool about it.. ya know!! don't be all ignorant aboutt it or anything.. just tell her how its goin downn haha!! ya knoww.. talk about it with her, she might undertsand and back off a little and give you a chance with some of the men!!! ggooood luckk gurlie hope it goes well and i helped a little :) <<3 *lizaa [ Brandonsbabe1111's advice column | Ask Brandonsbabe1111 A Question ]
DreAmBoi_FaL answered Sunday June 27 2004, 10:19 pm: Hrm, some friend. Well you should tell her that it's bothering you, and if you did and she's still doing it, then maybe you should be more aggressive and go for the guy before she gets a chance to screw things up for you. [ DreAmBoi_FaL's advice column | Ask DreAmBoi_FaL A Question ]
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