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She makes me look stupid
Hey my names Katie im 14 going on 15 and i have a friend named Jenn and weve been pretty much best friends since grade 6 and she has been awesum always there for me and understanding and laughs at my jokes ..but now ever since her boyfriend she has pretty much stopped being a good friend she makes me look stupid in english class by saying out loud KATIE UR SO STUPID THATS NOT RITE and the guy i like is in our english class and she knows that ..everytime i try to tell her wut i feel she laughs at me and i get so upset ..what should i do ? please help me
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You should just try to be her best friend again. I know you probably don't want to take advice from someone younger than you, but consider this: sit down and talk to her....thanks.
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she so does not deserve to be your friend!! She is just all worked up in her own little world!! during English class asked to be moved away from here!! hope i helped
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This happenes alot. Your best friend has a boy friend, so now for some reason, she wants to start acting like she's better than you. I know exactly how this feels and it sucks. What sucks even more is there is absolutely nothing you can do about it. What you can do is take a little space from her, maybe try to get at that guy in your English class that you like. Hey she is all inot her guy why can't you be right? And as for her calling you stupid and stuff. Tell her to quit that kid shit, calling you stupid, becuase it is getting corney. And if she laughs tell her why are you laughing, I didnt' tell a joke, I'm serious. Let her know you are tired of that crap. Good Luck! :)
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It sounds to me like Jenn has let this whole boyfriend thing go to her head.What I would do,is confront her again and if she stills laughs at u then just drop her as a friend.It sounds to me like shes not a very good friend anywayz.When her and her b/f break up,she'll come running back to you.Good Luck!
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hmm .. well thats not right @ all .. especially since shes supposed to be your best friend. i'm thinking that it has to do w/ her new boyfriend and i think you agree..! I think you really need to talk to her in private .. lay down the law .. tell her that if she doesnt stop making you feel like this then you dont konw if you wanna be friends with her. She shouldnt be making you feel bad if shes your best friend! Have a good talk with her! GOOD LUCK!
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Sit your friend down and tell her how you feel...if she starts to laugh then let her know your serious and you feel your friendship is falling apart. As for the boyfriend issue, if she was your true friend she wouldn't let a boy come between yallz friendship. Boys COME and GO but TRUE friends are FOREVER! Also...ask to watch how she talks about u in English becuase if she cared about your feelings she'd stop. *Stephanie* ~KiSsES~
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I think the best thing is to either tell her what your thinking (not yell it across the room). Or you could simply not confide anything of real importance in her since she can't seem to handle it. Maybe you should try and meet other friends. Keep her as a friend, bcuz she might come back to you after she is dumped.. which will most likely happen since you're only like about 15.
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You have to talk to her. Tell her how you feel. Basically, tell her what you just said. If she is a good friend like you said she is, then she will listen and try to change. If not, then maybe she isn't worth it. Good luck and I hope it all works out!
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Wow some friend.Try talking to her boyfriend about it.He could maybe talk to her about how u feel.She should listen then.Good luck grl~!
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Hey...
My name is Katie as well..lol:) I am also 14 going on 15! I can understand your situation because I've been there before. I guess this is just the age where guys start to come before friends(which is not rite at all!) I would definetly suggest telling her your true feelings and if she laughs at you...tell her it's really important to you and that you feel like your friendship is growing farther apart. Try talking to her about how she can change these feelings you are having so that you both are happy in the situation. It would be nice if in the end...everything turned our right and you could even hang out with her and her boyfriend sometimes(and possibly the guy you like!)...If she doesn't understand your feelings and doesn't seem to care, then she needs a wake-up call. For this I would suggest not talking to her as much and seeing how it turns out. This way, she will hopefully realize that she really needs you in her life as a best friend...someone whose always there for her. I would suggest doing the first thing and if that doesn't work, you could try the second as a last resort. I hope this helped and plz, if you have any more questions, jus ask me..I'm StrLyteStrBryte8:)
Take care gurl and good luck,
~*KaTiE*~
Oh, and let me know what happens, alright!? Thx!!
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Well I'm not exactly sure how you try to tell her, but you should do it when you two are alone so there won't be any type of distraction and she'll get the whole message. Some people like to joke a lot, some might go overboard and it becomes more personal than just a joke. You might have to raise your voice a bit for some people to understand, hopefully she isn't one of them. I don't know how you are with ignoring things, but that's maybe what you should do to her comments and maybe take a break from her a bit if she still doesn't get the picture. Friendships sometimes get ugly, this could be one of those times. I hope this helped out and that things get better between you two in due time.
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i used to have ur experience honey!! u see people like this u should stay away...but if u want to confront them do it with prove to show that she's change and ask her why has she change....if she still laughs at u for everythin' u said to her then it's time u find a new friend..but if that doesn't work...just try to show to her that ur better than her!!
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