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i went thru this site and found small kids of 13 to 16years of age having sex! well i have one question? are americans very desperate about sex are american girls so horny and slutty? and are american boys very careless about their future and career as they show in hollywood movies and sitcoms???????? please enlighten me, i don't mean to hurt u all at all. i have deep respect for this country america, which has welcomed everyone from the world. but if a girl loves one guy and has sex with that guy and then breaks off with him and then sees some one and again indulge in sex then again break off and again see someone........ isn't he or she acting slutty. well please i am confused b'coz kids here in india are blindly copying this culture of cheating and sex.american friends enlighten me about the situation.
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Truthfully, yeah that is slutty, but you must remember we are not all slutty. People here feel the need to be grown-ups and do grown-up things, so they do things without thinking. I'm sorry that people over there are copying our culture because I don't think it is a culture that should be copied. I'm not proud of it and that is for sure. Some girls and guys here just have nothing else to do with their time. Also, I think some of these people have issues at home and want to feel loved, so they respond to that by having sex. It's not exactly the right way to go in my opinion, but that's what they end up doing. Some other people just have sex because everyone else is (kind of like what is happening in India). It's really a confusing thing and each person's reason is different, but all in all not every American is slutty and careless.
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haha yeah i'd say america is getting preeettty trashy with all the people sleeping around.. but not everyone's like that, for instance some of the people that go to my school. but alas, most people i know *including me* are like that, and i just don't know. but ah.. that's just my perspective.
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Ummm, yeah. Kids don't know better. They think that they're in love but they don't even know the meaning of love. And hey, remember this site isn't all americans. Not everyone who is acting slutty is an american. And Indians (the one's from India) well their guys aren't so great either. And their laws suck. Not to bash where you come from, but... If a girl who is a nurse tends to a male patient who has a friend in the room that has a gun and rapes her and beats her, the girl is sent to prison? At least most of our laws make sense. But yeah, there are problems like this with ameicans as in any other country. American isn't the only country with slutty people living here. And just remember, everyone in America is from a different background. Me for example, 25% french, 75% Italian, born and raised in America, part Northern (the first 8yrs of my life) part southern (the past 5.5 yrs of my life) It's all in how a person is raised and their personality. Sorry if I've come across rude, but your question also came across rude and I'm trying to read it as if it wasn't.
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Well unfortunately there are many things that influence young people today not just to think about it but also do it. Not all parents are educating their children about sex nor even caring about what a child may be going through in their life that will lead them down this path. It's a good idea if friends who have that knowledge and sense to wait can help other friends. You have to live your life the way you want to but it needs to be smart as well. People are easily influenced because they allow themselves to be. Watching movies,sitcoms, etc doesn't make you that person your watching on television. Kids are even pressured these days because everyone else is doing it. Just because a group of people making that decision doesn't mean you have to. And if they try to pressure you or question your mrals then you will have to question their friendships. True friends will respect your decisions.
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welcomed everyone from the world? LMFAO!!! Australia is the biggest multi-lingual country in the world.. australia has someone from every single nationality... Australia is the onlyone welcoming people.. its fucking hard to get into america!
and yea.. americans are horny sluts -_- well the youngies anyway
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I think that it is crazy that kids are thinking about having sex at such a young age. I am a teen, and things like this scare me. It's true that people my age are thinking about and doing this> I think it is because that is what the media is reflecting these days, but that's just my opinion. However,not all teens are like that. I believe in saving sex for marriage and that it's a gift from God. Many of my friends also believe this. Instead of focusing on the fact that this is all happening, I try and set an example for others so that they can see that saving sex for marriage would make it the special act that it was always ment to be.
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I find it terribly scary that 13-15 year old girls and boys are having sex. There are a lot of contributing factors, including absent or neglectful parents. Not all boys and girls are like this. I didn't even think about dating until I was 16. But unfortunately was taken advantage of. I just didn't understand what was going on. Some people just have no idea of how they could be jeapordizing their future by not having a family structure in which to raise children. Sometimes I have to take a break from this site for that very reason.
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