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annoying brother
Okay, here's my issue. I'm 18 and I've been seeing my boyfriend for over 3 months and we're starting to get really serious. The only problem is that his brother is incredibly rude to me all the time. I've known both guys for a long time, and his brother used to be quite nice to me. Its just since we started dating that he's begun treating me like dirt. I've asked him what his problem is and he won't admit to having one. My boyfriend claims that he's just "not a people person", but he is much ruder to me than my boyfriend realises. Help please!
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The best thing for you do do is avoid him, and when you can't avoid him try not to let his rude comments affect you, or at least don't show him that it bothers you.
Something just occured to me. You said that he used to be nice to you, but changed after you started dating his brother. Well, is it possible that he's jealous. Maybe he has feelings for you, and he just can't stand the fact that he can't have you.
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it depends on the brothers age..if she is a youngster, i think the answer is, is that hes just being an immature lil shit and wants to get on ur nerves cause ur a "girl" and his brothers "gf"..but if he is older, then he definatly has a prOblEm..heres some gUeSseS..he might be jealOuS cause hiS brOthEr has a gf and hE dOeSnt, he might be jealOus cause the attentiOn is all on yOu nOw, or maybeeee just maybe, he use to like u and now that u got with his brOthEr, it hurt him..if i were u, if its bOthEring u that muCh, whiCh im sure it is..id tell ur bOyfriEnd hOw u fEel, even get teary-eyed..tell him that u cant take it anymore and if he doesnt stOp ull brEak up with him, tell him it hurts u THAT muCh to even riSk ur relationship...if u need more help, im here
love kristin
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His brother probably likes you and is mad at you for going out with his brother. He'll get over it.
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well, it sounds to me like your boyfriend's brother likes you and is jealous that his brother has you instead of him..maybe your b/f's bro thought that you liked him, but now that he sees that you like his bro, hes pretty pissed about that. your b/f's brother used to be nice to yu..until you started dating his bro. so, now, he's showing hate only bc he likes you and is mad about this.
hope i helped .. good luck...get back to me for anything else you mite need ..
-lOve Ash
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maybe your boyfriends brother is jealous that your dating his brother. if he doesn't have girlfriend then thats prbably y hes being so rude to u. Just tell him to leave you alone and if that doesn't work then tell your bf how rude he's being and maybe he can get him to stop. hope i helped-ally
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Ok...maybe your boyfriends brother has a secret crush on you, and he is just jealous of the fact that his brother got to you before he could...next time he makes a rude comment, just look at him and smile, and keep doing it, eventually he will stop!
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I think he's just jealous because his older brother is hanging around you more and not him. Ask him if that is why he is being rude to you all the time. Hope I helped and good luck :)
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He's probably jealous that you're with his brother and not him...
Watch out for some other hints.
He could very well want your nuts ma'am.
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