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Hey my name is Adrianna, im here to help you with anything, just ask me and i will have something to say
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im 13 and i have about a couple girl close friends, but they seem to be changing in front of my eyes. It doesn't bother me, but the thing that does bother me is that, everytime im with my guy friends all these girls seem to get mad at me and stuff. Ive learned to ignore it but it's starting to get bad again, and the guys are starting to call me a smut or slut or something, and its starting to piss me off. Do you think they r jealous or mad or what? What should i do? (link)
they are totally jealous!! just cause you have more "girl friends" than they do! dont listen to them...and as for the girls, i mean you dont have to hang with them 24/7 i mean there is gotta be some time for the "guys"...if you have n e thing else to say just ask me.


ok i went this summer there was this guy ryan that i didnt like but he was really really hott. anywayz he told like alot of ppl that he liked me and stuff and like bought me a necklace for end of school or w/e. at this party he asked me out but i said no b/c i just wanted to be friends. he got really mad and threw down this bracelet that he bought me. he yelled really loud: fine w/e i only ever liked u cuz of your looks!!! that really hurt and i didnt wanna like nebody at school this year but i do! im trying not too but i cant help it!!! plz write back!!!! (link)
well that really sucks,im sry you had so go through that, but it was just one time, im sure that your a lil worried about trusting guys, but there is nothing wrong with likeing someone this year, just because of a bad experience. The point is give this guy a chance to get to know you and everything else will fall into place, dont be scared, overcome the fear of likeing someone and go for it!

P.S. If you have n e more questions just ask me, im here if u wanna talk more.


My Friend Lied to me telling me he got suspended for acting "pimp" and i knew that u cant get suspended for acting like that. But i had found out by a nother friend that he brought a knife to school. It totally shocked me and i started to cry because wat friend could do that. I'm still mad and frusterated. Now he may be suspended 4 good. im still mad for it should he still be my friend?? Should i trust him??? and I*m mad cuz wat was he gunna do wit da knife!
PLEASE ANSWER IMMEDIATLY!! (link)
wow! i would be shocked too, he might have brought a knife to school, but there might b a logical explanation, that doesnt mean that you should stop being friends...i mean most friendships last a long time. the thing that you should really do is just talk to him, ask him what was he thinking, and ask him to not do it again, from what ive read yall r pretty good friends, and im sure that he will listen to you. If he doesnt listen to you then, i dont really know what else to say just try and talk, that is the best advice that i can give.

P.S. If he brought the knife to try and hurt someone then you should tell someone, i know that is stupid..tell on my friend? yeah but it is the best way to help him, and to help ur relationship as friends.


i hate my body .. like.. im 5'0'' nd i wiegh like.. 140.. but im muscular nd all .. but like.. i could lose wieght.. nd i needa find ways to lose weight.. what kinda excersises work.. FAST.. and like.. to top it off i have like the slowest motablisim lol.. so that sucks.. but im in alot of sports.. but it seems like them never lose any thing

grr so i just need a lil help here lol.. thanks! (link)
omg so what if u weigh 140 from what im hearing it is all muscle! trust me i know!, just to let you know i mean working out will make you slimmer but u will weigh more cause muscle weighs more than fat..but if thats the way you wanna go, then you should run at least a mile a day after school, and start lifting weights, and maybe occasionally go to the gym on saturday or sunday.And food! cant forget that, guess what there is more food than just salad, you can eat chicken without the skin, veggies, nuts, anything meat basicly, and try not to eat as much junk food, try and drink lots of water of diet drinks, believe me it works! BTW u dont have to do this if u dont want to, it was just an idea. Hope that is good enough advice for you




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