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Question Posted Tuesday August 24 2004, 6:10 pm

My Friend Lied to me telling me he got suspended for acting "pimp" and i knew that u cant get suspended for acting like that. But i had found out by a nother friend that he brought a knife to school. It totally shocked me and i started to cry because wat friend could do that. I'm still mad and frusterated. Now he may be suspended 4 good. im still mad for it should he still be my friend?? Should i trust him??? and I*m mad cuz wat was he gunna do wit da knife!
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LostAngel answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 3:06 pm:
If I were you, I say ditch the guy...he lied to you..and he also brought a weapon on to school grounds. Plus if my parents ever found out..I would never be allowed to talk to the guy at all. -hope I helped

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russianspy1234 answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 2:42 am:
um what does him bringging a knife to school has anything to do with you? maybe he was threatened and he brought it to protect himself? talk to him man of all the stupid things to end a friendship over... anyways your other friend might have been liying.

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SaraEliKirk answered Wednesday August 25 2004, 1:13 am:
Betrayed is what you feel! What would posess your friend to think that he had no other options? You should be there for your friend and let him know that your there for him because he obviously has problems and thats not the way to solve them. Yes your friend is probably suspended for a year or so, the school has no choice and you can obviously understand that! Was he gonna stab someone or was it a deliberate act of being violent! I probably wouldnt fear for my life if i were you but you def. should get to the bottom of this! :*:SaRa:*:

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.:ashli:. answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 11:38 pm:
i think that you should make the decision whether you want to still be frineds with him. i dont think that people should tell you who you should be friends with. in my personal opinion i would not be friends with him because i would not know if he was bringing the knife to school to kill me or one of my friends. WHO KNOWS. and to answer your question on trust... i dont think that you should trust him...

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cailoisa answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 10:59 pm:
Maybe he didn't do it on purpose? My bf always carries a Swiss Army knife with him, and more than once he's ended up in place he shouldn't have been with it.

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Bananasplit0340 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 9:09 pm:
wow! i would be shocked too, he might have brought a knife to school, but there might b a logical explanation, that doesnt mean that you should stop being friends...i mean most friendships last a long time. the thing that you should really do is just talk to him, ask him what was he thinking, and ask him to not do it again, from what ive read yall r pretty good friends, and im sure that he will listen to you. If he doesnt listen to you then, i dont really know what else to say just try and talk, that is the best advice that i can give.

P.S. If he brought the knife to try and hurt someone then you should tell someone, i know that is stupid..tell on my friend? yeah but it is the best way to help him, and to help ur relationship as friends.

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Mightjackurlexus answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 7:31 pm:
well u should really just sit down and talk with him tell him how u feel and ask him how he feels
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SammyPie answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 7:05 pm:
That was really... well, for lack of a better word, it was really stupid of him to bring a knife to school. And honestly, you have every right to be worried, and not to trust him. As for the not knowing why he brought the knife to school... there could be multiple reasons, from he was just trying to impress someone to the higher extreme of he wanted to use it... The ONLY way you can find out the true reason is if you ask him... and I suggest you do that.

Good luck, hun. Hang in there. He will be punished for his mistakes... I hope I helped in some way

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luvinmilizz05 answered Tuesday August 24 2004, 6:31 pm:
hey its me. i wasnt gunna do nothin wit the knife i just had it i aleays do. i didnt know u cared that much and im really sry bout that. let me know if thers anything i can do 2 make it up 2 u. i will do anything 2 keep ur freindship cuz ur a really good freind. i meant wut i said bout bein a pimp as a joke im sry.

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