well, my name is julia n i am 14 yrs old, im going to be a freshman this yr. and i wuz going out with this boy for 7 months straight n i rly started falling in love with him. we were both rly in love, n we wurr together all tha time. he wuznt juss my bf, he wuz my bestfriend, i told him everythingg!!...we even had sex...which wuz sumthn i alwayz told myself i wuldnt do until i wuz married, but i knew i rly loved him. then he broke up with me...he didnt even do it, he had his frend do it during tha summr, which wuz so horrible! i completely had a breakdown!! n its ben about two months and i seen him the othr day n hes saying how much he misses me n regrets it n that he still loves me. i rly wanna get bak with him but im not sure wut to do. i kno i culd never b with n e 1 else, n ill never love n e 1 else, but i juss kant believe wut he did. if hes willing to earn his trust bak it shuld last....right....? aw plz HELP MEE!! i cry everynite, i love him so much n miss him, i dont kno wut to do :(
storageanddisposal answered Thursday August 26 2004, 7:02 pm: I don't think situations like this are very rare. I'm not sure that he feels the same attachment as you, I mean come on. He broke up with you, and didn't even have the descency to tell you. I disagree with you when you say you can never or love anyone else, there's always the possibility you'll meet someone else later on. It's just that since this is the first intimate relationship you had, you think it could never occur again. I think since it ended the way it ended last time, chances are it'll end again in a similar way. I think you should try to get along without him for now. Wait until you've talked to other guys, etc, before you consider getting back together. At least attempt to find closure. [ storageanddisposal's advice column | Ask storageanddisposal A Question ]
DeeplyInLove102203 answered Thursday August 26 2004, 6:54 pm: well tell him how u feel bout him and ask him how he feels bout u now and see if u can make it work again im sure u can but juss talk to him and be straight up bout stuff and see wat he has 2 say k hunni hope i helped!! Caitlin*<3 [ DeeplyInLove102203's advice column | Ask DeeplyInLove102203 A Question ]
blond4life answered Thursday August 26 2004, 6:53 pm: i think you should get back together with him. if hes really sorry then he wont break up with you again so just go for it. hope i helped-ally [ blond4life's advice column | Ask blond4life A Question ]
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