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Hey im Nikki and i broke up with my b/f about 3 months ago (this was an 7 month relationship) And i love him more then anything, idk if he loves me at all and he asks if i would want to go back out with him and idk how he feels buthwe acts like a complete jerk to me and jokes around like he isnt joking but then he says he is and makes me cry (boo hoo) so whats your advice..?
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Wow..sounds like a situation I was in awhile back! Tell him honestly that you dont like it how he jokes around with you about things. But be sure to tell him that doesnt mean he cant joke around with you anymore! lol! Be honest and just tell him straight up that you dont like some of his comments, their just flat out rude. If you still really want to be with him then I sudgest he better clean his act up..if he still loves you this is a strange way to show it..but guys are VERY strange..so this seams kinda normal if youve been through some of the things i have! haha! Anyways..stay true to yourself dont let your guard down just for a guy!
x0x-dani
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Hey Nikki! Well, if you REALLY do love him, then try talking to him and telling him how you feel. Just be like "I know I broke up with you 3 months ago, but I still love you and I just want to know how you feel about me, I mean do you still love me enough to go back out with me again? And everytime we're together you're a jerk to me, why is that?" Just say something like that and how you feel and just ask him questions you want to know. If he doesn't want to be with you or you change your mind about being with him, then just try to move on and get yourself out there and have fun. Go to fun places, like a party, the mall, etc. and introduce yourself to guys. Hope this helps and good luck hun! If you need anything else, just post a message in my inbox.
xoxo Kourtney
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if you really love him, go out with him again. if he says this sort of stuff again break up with him right there on the spot. its not worth going through and it might get in his head that thats not cool. hope i helped!
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oh my gosh...lol...my friend has went through that and still has...they went out for 5 months and broke up...he started trying to get her jealous...and pissed her off all the time...she'd cry and cry...and still always talk to him on the computer...he even once pissed me off...start SHOWING him...you aren't gonna take his shyt anymore and maybe he's takin out his pain and frusteration out on you since you broke up with him
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if hes obnoxious to you all the time then just dont go out with him. i kno you love himbut if it seems like he doesn't love you then maybe you should just give up on him and move. sometimes its hard but if he doesn't really love you then its not really worth your while. hope i helped-ally
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well if he cant take anything serusoisly (how eva u spell it) then hes noy gunna be such a good boyfriend u could do better
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i know just how u feel. my ex boyfriend was just like that. he was so rude and a jerk and i still liked him. you need to get over him. somebody whos that rude to you and makes u cry isnt worth your time. try meeting some new people, go out with someone else, you'll get over him. its normal =c) if i can help any more ask me a ? on my column or email me!
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HE DOESNT FUCKIN LOVE U....TELL HIM TO KISS UR ASS AND LEAVE U THE HELL ALONE
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My advice is that he is a jerk. I wouldn't date him again if i were you. Just be friends with him for now, then later on if he matures and is nicer take it into consideration of dateing again.
gl
Christina
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forget about that bitch
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Dear Nikki,
I'm sorry to hear that your ex-boyfriend that you love makes you cry. Although you love him you have to ask yourself... is he worth getting hurt over? If he jokes around and makes you cry, and he acts like a jerk then i would say no. Even though he asked you if you would go back out with him you should move on a find someone that makes you happy instead.
Good Luck :)
**LatinaGurl**
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well talk to him about how he jokes with you. tell him you want to give things another try because you love him, but your not willing to do it if you have to put up with that jokester shit cuz it makes you cry.
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