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Guy troubles
There is this guy (let's call him Bob) and he's really really cute. I just met Bob a few months ago but he's very sweet and whenever I'm with him I get goosebumps and butterflies in my stomach (majorly) I don't know if I should go up to him and tell Bob I really like him or not. And he also dated one of my friends but they broke up, and I don't want her to be mad at me if I date him. What should I do?
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well about the friend thing. i think that even though your friend went out with Bob doesnt mean you can't because no one can tell you who to like/love or not. and the Bob thing. i think you should have some sort of clue if he likes you. like if he hits you for fun or somthing like that. i think you should tell him. it will make him happy and you releved that you told him that.
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Well you help your feelings for someone so if you like him your friend should be okay with that.But yes,I diff. think you sould tell him that you like him.That's so cute that you get butterflies that means you really like him alot.♥
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Well is your friend one of your really good and close friends? If so then you don't want to risk the relationship that you have with your friend for a guy. Guys come and go, but it's hard to find a good friend that you connect with and you can have fun with. If the friend is just an aquantence then I think it's ok to pursue this "bob". Just ask Bob to "hang out or go to a movie" one weekend, then he'll get a feel for things and maybe he'll take it from there. If not, then there isn't any shame in asking a guy out. Times have changed my friend.
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Well since your friend went out with him first, try confiding in her or find a way to casually tell her that someone may like him and see her reaction. If you get a positive response then its a go =] If you don't, try waiting a while before you make a move. Hope i helped!
-Blond4life
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I think you should totally go for it. Telling a guy you like him can be hard but it's usually worth it. You might want to ask your friend if she would be mad at you though because that's a touchy subject for us girls.
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well, if you and Bob are good friends and you think there is some really good chemistry, then the least you can do is tell him that you are into him. i understand that your friend dated him, but you are not acting on your feelings. even if it would make you feel a little better talk to your friend that dated Bob and tell her your feelings towards Bob so she won't hear it from someone else. And if you tell her make sure it's only you and her together. if this helps, let me know... i know where you are coming from...
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If I were you I would go up to "Bob" and tell him how you feel, and ask him how he feels about this. Also talk to your friend first make sure she is ok if you have a relationship. Hope I helped!
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I don't think you should do to much. Whether your friend says that it's okay or not, you shouldn't go out with each other's left overs.
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if i were you, i would ask your friend if she would be mad if you did anything with him before you do anything with bob . then if she says yes then go for it ! deffinetely tell him how you feel . if she says no, then wait for him to be attracted to you . things will all be good in the end =)
xoo hope this helps !! ♥
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If you really like this guy, then I suggest you tell him. If you're really worried that your friend will get mad, then I think you should tell her right now instead of maybe hiding it from her. Hope this helps you!
*Here4u34*
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Well I think you should give it a try.But first you should talk to your friend to see what she thinks about it,you might hurt her without noticing,so do the approach,check what she feels for him and if you see its nothing then comment her about your feelings.If for some reason your friend seems to get hurt drop the topic there.Analize all those fact and then get prepared for a decision.SInce you like the guy it is always worth it to try.Maybe you have a new oporunity,do the apporach to him,you got nothing to lose.If he dosn't like you back no worries,you'll find someone out there that will like you for who you are and that will want to be with you as more than a friend.Good luck
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Talk to your friend about it, try to find out what she'd think about it if you went out with him. As a friend she probably wants to see you happy, but you dating her ex could come to uncomfortable situations, so you might need to compromise, if it comes to a relationship with Bob.
As for him, he's a guy and therefor probably clueless. Go out with him, try to probe him, but don't try subtle hinting to let him make the first move, but make that move yourself. Men don't get hints from women very often.
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talk it over with your friend before you do anything. find out how she feels about him and somehow let her know that you like him. if shes a true friend she'll understand. then you should hang out with bob and when the time is right be like, "yeah.. i like you" or something like that but make it sweet and at the right time. its surprising but guys like that kind of stuff too!
hope i helped:)
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well first of all it might be ocwart for your friend. talk to her about it. see what she thinks, but DO NOT let her make the disisions for you. if she is fine and so are you, get to know him, and slowly ease the fact in that you like him. or, if you really want to just tell him, the worst you can get is an "i dont like you back" good luck!
~Ank
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