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he likes me too
ok, problem. theres this guy at my skooL.. he likes me a lot he even told me he loved me. i really like him too! i can't go out with him though.. he had sex when he was 11 and im afraid he'll want that from me and only think about sex. the thing is though i REALLY like him! i mean ive never liked anybody this much before. ive seriously thought about going out with him, even though he is considered a "nerd" but i really don't care what people think. i just dont know if i can go out with him bcuz of the whole sex thing.. what do i do? please if you could help me thatd be great =c) thanx!
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that seems 2 b a rly common problem l8ly. these dayz it seems lyk alot of ppl have ben having sex, n its good that that is sumthing ur not comftorable with. if u REALLY like him then u shuld juss tell him how u feel, tell him u like him but ur not sure wut it is he rly wants 4m u or juss that u rly rnt redy 4 sex. i respect u very much :) hope i helped :)oh yah, n about tha whole nerd thing, u shuldnt even worry about that, remember, nerds r gonna rule tha world sumday!! lol
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go out with him. definatly. and if he brings up anything about doing it, tell him you are NOT ready. and do NOT give in. and if he keeps pressuring you, break up with him. hope i helped!
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If you really like him, let him know and tell him you want to go out but not if he expects you to have sex with him, until your ready.It's worth giving a shot if you really like him.Hope everything works out!
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If u like the guy give him a chance, if he gets to sexul for u that u can't handle it them tell him to stop and if he doesn't then do wat ever it takes. Doesn't matta if u hurt him really bad, he desirves it if he didn't listen to ya.
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well...ok...ummm maybe since he's considered a 'nerd' that's why he said he's had sex before to try and fit it...do u know for a fact he's not a virgin?...and if u know for a fact he isn't a virgin...if you really like him and he really likes you back...he should care enough about you to trust how you feel about the subject 'sex' and will be able to handle not getting any from you
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i really think u shold go for it...u know urself that u WONT have sex with him and the only way to figure out if he just wants sex, is to actually go out with him......the FIRST time he even tries to do it with u and u wont and he gets mad, id dump him, cause then ur question was answered, he does just want sex...but defintly go for it..dont let this chance get passed up...just be careful cause alota guys just say they love u to have sex with you, dont be fooled..watch out for yourself but go for it..
love kristin
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Why don't you give him a try and if hes into sex tell him you want to wait and your not into that stuff yet. But if he keeps pressuring you to do something you don't want to do then dump him.
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i think that you should really try going out with him..i mean, you'll never know what will happen if you do. you have to take chances sometimes. so, in my opinion, i think that you should go out with him but when the topic of sex comes up, just simply let him know that you're not ready and you dont think the two of you should have sex just yet. if he doesnt appreicate that, then theres your answer...forget about him, hes not worth it. but, if he does appreicate that, then keep going out with him.
if he likes you enuff, im pretty sure he will respect your feelings and wont try and push you into doing anything you dont want to do just yet.
and also, do you think that him having sex at 11 years old is just a rumor or did he tell you personally?
i think it will work out pretty well-dont worry.
good luck ..hope this helped..get back to me for anything else..
-lOvE aSh
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take a chance and go for it. he may not have actually had sex when he was eleven. most ppl dont have sex at that age. if it turns out that all he wants from u is sex then i suggest you dump him and move on. hope i helped-ally
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heyy i think u should go out with him but tell him that ur not gonna be having sex with him nd if he truly likes u then he'll pick u over sex..nd it might not even be about sex, he might really lyk u nd want to be with you nd doesnt think about it. try goin out with him nd see what happens..
::hope i helped:: =)
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well thats pretty dumb to have had sex when hes eleven, i mean most people dont even think about it then, but considering you REALLY like him, you never know, maybe hes changed. i would say go out w/ him. if he starts gettin a lil too close to you and even just mentions sex, no matter what dump him for your sake and dont let him pressure you into anything. if he never mentions sex and goes just as far as u want.. then thats great and probably means that he really does like u. also if he wants u to like take your clothes off or feel you or something like that, then ya hes just using you and definetly dump him then. hope i could help!
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NO ONE FUCKIN CARES U STUPID ASS BITCH
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Well, he's a "nerd" and he's had sex, ya say?
Nerds don't have sex.
He's lying so you'll think he is cool.
Contrary to popular belief not all guys are out there for some nookie.
He very well may be sincere.
I believe if it came down to sex or you, he'd choose you, and hopefully that'd work for all guys and girls.
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I think you should go out with him. You have to tell him straight out that if he wants a real relationship, then it can't be just about sex. He has to realize that relationships aren't about having sex. It's about loving the other person. Hope I helped and good luck :)
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i think you should go out with him and just be upfront about how you don't want to have sex.
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