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Gender: Female
Location: Cheltenham
Age: 13
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MSN: soccerbumm124@yahoo.com
Member Since: August 21, 2004
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13/Female...I have jouvenile diabetes, which is sad because everyday, i have to prick my finger everyday BUT i'm used to it so it doesnt matter. anyway, i'm going to school next monday (i have never been to regular school, only homeschool) and im thinking that everyone will make fun of me because during class, i will have to go to the bathroom and prick my finger. im afraid everyone will make fun of me :( How do i explain to them that this is okay and im just a normal human being and im just like everyone else? (link)
let your teacher know at first and have her talk to each kid in the class personally if possible. if not, explain to them if the subject comes up that you have blood sugar problems and its just to make sure your ok. most cool people will understand that.


i have this friend(lets call her mangan)and latly (especial last year) we have gotten into a lot of fights (not physical, but like over stupid thisngs) like 1 time when i didnt get her some shoe! but anyways we have been frineds since second grade and it is now eighth. she is makin new friedns and so am i, and i am afaidi will lose her, and that is the last thing i want to happen :( i just gotn know wut to do cuz i love her to death and always will please help me!

signed,

tryin to hold on!

(dont deleat cuz i really need adviuce!) (link)
tell her that you guys dont see eye to eye. let her know how you feel, and try to see things her way and let her know she should try harder to do the same. if your positive you want to keep her, try your hardest.


high skool is startin in less than a week, so im pumped bout that. the only thing is... i hang out with everyone. im not popular or nething but i have a bunch of friends, which can b bad. i hang out with a group of friends, then go over n hang with another. but the thing is im not really accepted in either one. they like me, but i can tell there talking behind my backs cause i hang out with such and such. ive tried for 2 years to balance it out, but it annoying me so much. can someone just tellme what to do?? i rate (link)
high school can be tough. but remember, there's always mroe fish in the sea. if you dont feel comfortable/accepted with these people, either get close with one group and kind of leave the other behind, or find completely new friends. that could solve your problem.


there's this girl i really like i sort of dn''t know y she isn't talkin' to me anyomre. i think it's becuz i did the stupidest thing in the world. Just need some help here.

sincerely,
Anonymous
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Anonymous-
She's probably talking to you because she feels the same way. I'm sort of in the same situation with my ex-bf. Just try not to make her hate you or anything :o).


Yo Liz, There's this girl who I like and I think really only likes me as a friend. 2 years ago we really hung out a lot, but a few mounths ago she started to hang out with me less and less. I really just noticed I liked her earlier on in the summer, but if I tell her I think she won't even want to be my friend anymore.

From,
confused and lonly. (link)
CaL-
Maybe this is a topic to be kept a secret. I'm sure if you told her, she would be fine with it, but if your friendship is getting fragile, leave it alone. When\if you get comfortable with her again, break it to her slowly that you like her. If she cant accept that, move on.


Well I want someone to ask me out and at this age the boys are afraid i sorta just wanto know if a boy likes me cause i feel really ugly and like no one likes me..do u think anyone will ask me out..:-/


-Wanted:Boyfriend (link)
Wanted:-
Don't feel ugly, boys are usually shy about their real feelings. If you want to know if he likes you, ask a friend to find out for you. Maybe someone will ask you out if you get comfortable with them and vice versa. Just go with the flow, ya know?


My guitar teacher is going to teach me a Beatles song...but I don't know which one I want him to teach me. I know it's not really a huge dillemma but do you have any ideas?

- Holly (link)
Holly-
I'd say While My Guitar Gentally Weeps or Paperback Writer. It's up to you though.


liz i really like u but i can't talk 2 u because i don't think u would like me sooo just write back
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who are you?


OK, my question really isn't about my famile but they didn't have the categorie i wanted.

There's 3 baseball teams i could play for, my church, my school, or the team i been on for a long time.

I'll play for two but i have to leave one out.

Thanks,

A kid in wissconsin (link)
AKIW-


I'd say play for the team that you have more friends on and have a better chance to get better with. If I were you, I'd play for my school and the one I'd been playing for for a long time. Hope I helped :o)


i take drug 2 be better at sports wat should i do???? i am the best soccerball player at cheltenham

from

not so good (link)
Not So Good-
That's wrong. That is so totally wrong. Stop. You're in so much danger you don't even know. It's a better feeling being the best if it's genuine, not from steroids or something. You need to stop, NOW.


liz,

my parents always fight i really want them both 2 be happy what should i do???

from
fighting family (link)
Fighting Family-
Talk to them and tell them how you feel. If they don't listen, when they fight, close your door and turn on music loud to drown out the sound. If you feel like going to drastic measures, ask your parents about a family counselor. That may not be nessisary though.


i am the most popualr girl in skool but my fashion is on the dl wat should i do???

from

helpless queen (link)
Helpless Queen-
Try buying some style magazines. Earn money to buy new stuff by babysitting, doing lawn work, just odd jobs around your neighborhood. But of course, if you're popular, why would you need to change?


hey liz my aunt has somethig wrong with her and i don't know wat 2 do

from
secretly scared (link)
Secretly Scared-

If you know what's wrong with her, learn things about it. Try talking to people about it, and see what you can do to help. Make sure she knows you're there for her.


ok liz i am like a dork a fat ugly dork i want 2 be populr like u

wat should i do???


from
ugly fat dork (link)
Not A Fat Ugly Dork-

Don't be so hard on yourself! Try being nice to other people and you'll find yourself at the top soon enough.


i am really sad i think i might kill myslef i am sooooooo sad i am doin sooo bad i college and i just broke up with my b/f i think i might just start ove rin heaven wat should i do??

from

blank (link)
Blank-
DONT even THINK about that. Try starting some extra activities and make new friends. Force time into your schedule to study and get lots of sleep. Spend more time doing things you enjoy and forget about the boy. Think about what's important.


i am always hurt and always in a cast i always am falling,tripping, and just getting hurts what should i do???

from

hurtness (link)
Hurtness-

Try to think about what you're going to do next. Look ahead of you and plan to avoid obstacles. If you do make a mistake, the best things you can do is learn from it and pretend you meant for it to happen.


i think i am fat even though my friend say i am not i am wat should i do??? (link)
Whoever-

Trust your friends. If they truely love you they'll tell you the truth. You could ask your doctor what the normal weight for your age is if you want. 5-10 pounds over average weight is NOT fat! Don't worry about it.


ok well i like this boy and i really wanna talk 2 him but i can't wat should i do???

from

no boy friend (link)
NBF-

If you can't talk to him because he's dating-
Wait and see if he becomes single. If that's not going to happen, move on.

If you can't talk to him because he doesn't live near you-
Keep liking him, but don't get too involved. Try to find someone new, because he's not an option.

If you can't talk to him because you'll be embarrassed-
Don't! Do what's comfortable for you. When you're ready to talk to gim, get to know him before you decide to ask him out. It'll work out better in the end.


Dear Liz,
I really want 2 babysit but i am afraid that my friends will get mad at me. wat should i do???

from
without a job (link)
W/O a Job-

Don't be afraid to make money. You're friends may be jealous at first but they'll get over it. Try not to take up all your time baby sitting and spend time with them. Try not to steal their clients, that might make them angrier.


Dear Liz,

A bad thing happend 2 my family about a mouth ago all my friends helped but i am still sad i don't kno wat 2 do i mean i can always talk 2 my friends but i just can't explain about it. i maybe thought that they would male fun of me.

wat should i do????

from,
helpless (link)
Helpless-

If your friends truely are friends, they wouldn't even think of making fun of you. If they make fun of you, take some time away from them. Whatever you do, don't worry about it! Everything's under control.




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