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Q: i have krabs. wat do i do? they itch so badly.
go to the doctor about that.. or the pharmacy.. good luck.

Q: Ok, well there is this Kid in my school..Who i like and i told one of my guy friends and he told him..and when i imed him saying "so you found out huh?" he said "yea" and other stuff.. and he said he didnt like me ..but things would have been different if i told him i liked him not my friend! and so we were just friends for awhile.. then people started spreading rumors that i lost my virganity to him and crap!.. and he will not talk to me at all ne more i dont know if it was bc of that or something else but i didnt do ne thing! iand i reallllllly like him it has been 3 months since we last talked! idk what to do i still like him!
Wow... thats a tuff one but i think i can help ya out.. You NEED to talk to him!! u need to tell him it wasnt u starting the rumors and you really want to be friends with him. If any1 ask you about the rumor DENY IT! ask him why hes mad at you n why he wont talk to you... you may be nervous about talkin to him at first but once u know whats goin on ull feel alot better n you wont have to wonder "what if i wouldve talked to him" good luck girl! tell him u still like him but ud atleast like to be friends with him ryte now!!

Q: HEY MY NAMES EMILY, IM A 20 YEAR OLD MED STUDENT AT LSU, I FEEL STUPID DOING THIS BUT I REALLY NEED HELP, THERES THIS GUY IVE BEEN WITH ON AND OFF SINCE MIDDLE SCHOOL. YOU KNOW HOW THAT GOES. THEY NEVER EVER LAST AND AT THE END ITS REALLY HEART BREAKIN. WE'VE BEEN SEEING DIFFERENT PEOPLE BUT WE ALWAYS SEEM TO COME BACK TO EACH OTHER. USUALLY THESE RELATIONSHIPS NEVER LAST, BECAUSE WHEN THEY START YOU'RE SO YOUNG AND YOU DONT REALLY FIND SOMEONE GOOD FOR YOU. LIKE, IN MIDDLE SCHOOL ITS USUALLY YOU JUST SEE HOW MANY GUYS YOU CAN DATE, YOU DONT REALLY SEE WHO THEY ARE AND EVERYTHING. BUT WITH THIS GUY ITS DIFFERENT. WE'VE HAD SO MANY GOOD TIMES. I MEAN YEAH REALLY BAD TIMES BUT THE GOOD TIMES OVERPASS THEM. I REALLY LOVE HIM AND I COULD SEE MYSELF WITH HIM LONG INTO THE FUTURE. BUT SOMETIMES I DONT THINK HE FEELS THE SAME. I WANT TO JUST GET OVER HIM. I MEAN GIRL, AT LSU SO MANY FINE GUYS. BUT I HATE STARTING OVER. IM SCARED OF CHANGES. IM SO USED TO THIS GUY. I MEAN WE'RE SO UNBELIEVABLY CLOSE. I'D EVEN LIKE TO HAVE HIS BABIES YOU KNOW? I KNOW HIS FAMILY, HE KNOWS MINE. HIS PARENTS ARE PRACTICALLY MINE AND VICE VERSA. THE PROBLEM IS EVERY TIME WE BREAK UP, HE FINDS SOMEONE ELSE, ME ON THE OTHER HAND, NEVER SO EASY AT ALL. HE DONT REALLY CARE WHO HE FINDS, SLEEPS WITH OR ANYTHING. AS LONG AS HE GETS TO RUB IT IN MY FACE OR HURT ME HE FEELS LIKE HES ACCOMPLISHED. WELL WE'VE HAD LONG TALKS LATELY AND WE'RE THINKING OF GIVING IT ONE MORE GO. I REALLY DONT WANNA LOSE HIM GIRL, LOL I FEEL LIKE I KNOW YOU, LIKE YOU'RE ONE OF MY REALLY GOOD FRIENDS BECAUSE IM LIKE OUT IN THE OPEN WITH THIS. BUT I REALLY DONT WANNA LOSE HIM YET I WANT TO ADD AGAIN. SO HELP ME. WHAT CAN WE DO TO MAKE IT WORK THIS TIME? BECAUSE IM TIRED OF GETTING HURT AND I DESERVE A GREAT GUY AND HE REALLY CAN BE ONE BUT THEN AGAIN, I SHOULDNT HAVE TO GO THROUGH ALL THIS PAIN TO HAVE A DECENT RELATIONSHIP. HELP ME OUT GIRL! THANKS JENI! ~:: EMILY ALISE ::~
Emily, i know how hes hurting you!! i understand that completly you just want to be with him b.c you love him so much but yet he loves hurting you.. NOT GOOD.. Give him the one more chance n let him know how you feel.. let him know that its not funny when he dates other girls just to piss you off and that he needs to grow up and treat you right.. u seem like a really nice girl wanting the best n life and u sound like u deserve it so if he fucks up this time u gotta move on girl.. it hurts yeh, but in the future ull look back and know you did the right thing not runnin back to him time n time again... that onli causes more pain. & your close with his family so i kno how that makes it hard!! you dont wunna lose him cuz ud be losing them to, so if things dont work out with yall.. try to stay friends.. itll hurt yeh to see him dating other girls but be strong n know that itll all be better in YOUR future and keep close with his family!! good luck girl i gotta feelin yawl will work out!! **jEnNy**

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