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younger guy
hey
im a 14yr old gal who has a crush on a guy like 10 months younger than me. i kno 4 a fact that he USED 2 like me - but i didnt feel the same way wen he did. he neva told me he felt that way but all his frends told me he did.
he has heapz of gf's n none of them eva last
but recently he's goin out wit a gurl in the grade below me n its pretty serious..
she n i h8 each otha but pretend we dont, i kno from her frends that she bitches about me all the time 2 them even thou we've neva met.
im reali stuck cos i care alot bout him but i cant tell him that, what makes it worse is that i know if i did end up going out with him, nina (his gf) would full dis me cos im going out with a younger guy..
should i tell him how i feel or just 4get about him?
is it wrong 2 go out wit sum1 in a lower grade?
love ali oxo
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ALI,
it is not a crime going out with sumone a grade younger than you. its just like a guy going out with a younger girl. theres really no difference. but the opposite sex.
hope i helped.
-xxmandaxx-
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well if yooh really like him no matter how afraid yooh are jus go for it .. nd if yall went out age doesnt matter if yooh like him .. age doesnt metter at all .. so tell him how yooh feel good luck nd i hope i helped nd if yooh need to talk
[ LyL qT x lOnLy ] *megan
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It sounds to me like you dont really want this guy you just dont want this other girl to have him cause you dont like her.
If hes with this other girl and you really do have feelings for him then its ok to tell him.
But if your not serious about it then theres no real point to ruining his relationship with this other girl.
Hope i helped, let me know how it goes!
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first of all age iz juss a numba it duznt mean shyt k hunni my bf iz over a year younger then me n it has worked out for 10 months this sunday and i mean we love each otha to death but i mean who cares how old he iz if u like him then u do and u should tell him how u feel so u can see if he has the same feelings for u so u could maybe start a relationship wid him and who cares bout that stupid bitch and wat she has 2 say!!! so say if he dumps her for u then she talks shyt bout u goin out wid a younger guy then be like your juss jelous cuz he dumped u for me so get ova yourself and juss rub it in her face and b a bytch to her like she iz to u!!! so GOOD LUCK and if u need n e thing drop 1 in my inbox k hunni!!!
Caitlin*
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tell him how u feel, n no, its perfectly ok to go out w/some1 in a lower grade, and just forget this girl nina..if she disses u u gotta just ignore it! shes just jealous!! i hope i helped and good luck!
me
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Well, 10 months is no big deal at all! Not one bit, and age is nothing but a number! And, by the way Nina hates you, it's most likely because she is just angry at the fact that you like him, or has an idea that you do, and underneath, is really worried that her guy will actually leave her for you, so by her talking crap, it's only because she knows that you are a good person and she's afraid of her guy catching onto that and wanting you again! And, as for this guy, the fact that he has heaps of girlfriends doesn't exactly thrill me, but if you really do like him, then I would wait around for him. I wouldn't try and break him and his g/f up because you wouldn't like someone to do that to you. You should wait for him and his g/f to go downhill and then try and tell him that you like him. If you can't wait that long, then my advice is to go to NINA first, just so she doesn't get hurt in case she really loves this guy and you wouldn't want to break some girls heart bc after all, girls have a secret bond: never take a girl's man from them! So, I think you should talk to her first about it, even though it will totally suck, but it's the only way to have everyone happy in the end!
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(sry this is a lil long!!)
ok welll first of all, 10 months is nothing at all. I have heard of many people going out with people who are 10 years younger than them, so dont worry about 10months. and also if he is in a younger grade...so what...at my school 1/2 the "couples" are in 2 differnt grades. and dont worry about that nina girl bcuz if shes being a jerk then 1/2 the time she's prolly jealous, and if they do break up and u go out with him, she'll really be jealous, but you have just got to ignore her...it will help, trust me! About forgeting him n' stuff, well if his relationship is seriuos then i would not forget about him, but open your self to more options, who knows, maybe after he breaks up, u'll still be single, or maybe u'll be w/ a guy who u like even more!
~hope i helped
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