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Ok, so this year I just started highschool and I love it. I'm making alot of new friends, and people are starting to like me more. But there is this guy. I like him alot, he's a senior. And he is popular. we are friends but i like him alot. I want to get to know him more but i dont know how. we have one class together and we talk alot but i just want to know how to become good friends with him
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Well, that's great that you like high school. Don't let someones "so called social status" aka popularity keep you from getting what you want and being friends with who you want and especially from liking who you want. Since you have class with him, keep going on the talking! Don't stop that because then to him you may seem uninterested. You can't just forcefully become someones "good" friend. These things take time! What you can do though is show an interest in being someones friend. Like next time you start talking ask him how his day has been so far or if anything new or exciting is going on. If he says it was crappy ask why. Be concerned but also sincere with him. If you want to get to "know" him more ask for his number or his sn or email address. Don't be shy! If he acts weird just be like " you know in case I have a homework question"...then go from there. Also, you could ask him to hang out (like with friends..or ask if he's going to that weeks football game_ and tell him you'll look forward to seeing him or actually go with him. Just be yourself, honest, and have fun! :)
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just hang out with him a lot, and maybe one time say "hey maybe we could hangout out "and then say like a resturant or sumthinlike that, or maybe the movies.
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if you are good enough friends, try getting like a group of people you both know and go somewhere (movies, etc.)... invite him to hang out sometime when you're in class... if he's interested- make the plans, if not... dont plan on it. im sure if he likes you as much as you like him, things will work out! =] -ask_anything
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the age difference isnt a factor in case you were worried about that. jsut keep talking to him if all you wana be is friends tehre really isnt much you need to do.
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My advice to you is to keep on talking to him and getting to know him til you have a really strong relationship. Just act like he's any other new friend. Do you fancy him? If yes then once you get to know each other you can try to work out if he feels the same.
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