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My life is not a cinema!
I go out with this guy and I REALLy like him, I mean REALLY. I want to do things with him like kiss etc but all our friends follow us around and tease us and we never get to spend time alone. Like, someone will say: Izzi kiss Jon and I just can't do it with everyone there. It makes me really embarassed and I get scared that Jon will think that I don't want to when I DO. I tried to tell my friends to leave me alone and they kinda do, but everyone else doesn't.
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There's nothing wrong with having PDA issues. Your friends just think you're a cute couple, I'm sure. (My friends do the same to me, except it's more like they catch my bf and me kissing goodbye before going to our classes, and tease me endlessly about what a sickeningly adorable couple we are)
Just explain to Jon that you don't feel comfortable with Public Displays of Affection, and that it's not him at all. Also, keep telling your friends that it really, honestly bothers you. They should stop if they realize that.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =)
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well my advice...go over his house or he goes over yours without telling any of your friends then kiss him when the time is right. all about timeing girl. well if for some reason your not able to "hang" then just sneak him in a different hall way in school and do it.
hope i helped!!
-sincerly Tess-
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i have the same problem, jsut go ahead and kiss him, thats what i did and they all shut up
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Don't feel presured to do anything that u don't want to. I mean my friend told my b/f to kiss me and I told him that I don't want him to kiss me just becuz sumone tells him to, I want him to kiss me when he wants to, and so he waited awhile to kiss me, but it was well worth it. So what Im tryin to say is that kiss the guy when u want to and when u feel the time is right. Then u will realize that ur happy u waited to kiss him and will realize that it was worth the wait.
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i think that u should talk to HIM and tell him that u really like to hang out with him but it would be more fun if sometimes it were just the 2 of you. talk to your other friends and tell them how u feel if they really care about u they will understand the situation. Remember u hav nothing to lose , and everything to gain.
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Ok dont bring them along in the first place. Just set aside plans in an organized way and they can have no way of bothering you. Even if someone does show up you know have backup plans where you can do stuf. And when you're alone, tell him that you're not prude you just dont like to kiss in front of big crowds it pisses you off. that's all he needs to know. Good luck sweets xoxo
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just plan 2 meet jon somewhere w/out tellin ur friends where ur gonna meet and make sure he duznt tell ne1 either hope i helped
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oh i had the same problem. it got so bad with me that our relation ship ended. but i hope it doesn't work out that way for you. my advice is to talk to them again and tell them that it really bugs you when they do it. tell them that they are being extreamly immature and they need to find a hobbie. as for the other people just tell them to leave you alone as well. you and your boyfriend should go out together. alone just the two of you. go on a picnic or something like that. have him over your house or go over to his house. and you need to tell your boyfriend that too. tell him that it's making you uncomfortable and you'd like it if he could tell them to leave you guys alone. hope i helped! good luck hun
..::..emily..::..
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Okay, so yes, we're all guilty of thinking other people's lives are soap operas sometimes, and it really is just because we have dull lives. So just tell them to stick it. Make it very clear how you feel, and hopefully you'll shock them back into reality. Or you could try following them everywhere and watching their every move for a day - they'll soon realise how annoying it is ;)
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