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Question Posted Sunday September 19 2004, 9:12 pm

Okay,
c i have these two male friends and they r BEST friends with me n eachother. and tonite they told me that they werent friends anymore n its my fault. the reason is cuz i told evan sumthing that his riend told me the other night becuz i didnt feel safe with his telling me that and i needed to talk to sumone about it. so i told evan and when i told evan what i told him made him mad so he told me that him and chris werent gunna b friends anymore and that it was my fault. When i was talking to chris he said that evan called him and told him they werent friends and all. Not only dont i feel bad cuz its my fault but i feel bad becuz they arent friends and its my fault. I love them both a whole lot like really no joke. but the thing that also scares me is that sumtimes they joke and this time i dont know if its a joke+ i wanna help i want them to b friends but they wont talk to me. I have NO clue wat to do plz HELP ME REALLY BAD!! i need it or im planning on killing myself if i cant help!


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TruthIsFire13 answered Monday September 20 2004, 6:46 pm:
It's not worth killing your self. I know what it feels like in these kind of situations cause I hang with a lot of friends that are guys.Tell them both how u feel and if they are playing a joke it won't be no joke when u try to kill them!

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LilMia811 answered Sunday September 19 2004, 10:26 pm:
well if I knew the smething that the one guy told told you, I could answer your question better but anyways... try explaining to the person you told the secret to that you didnt tell him so he could mad you told him becasue you know he cares abotu your friend as well and you wanted the 2 of you to help him. And it explain the same thing to your friend with the problem. Remind them how much you all need eachother.

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darkconfessions answered Sunday September 19 2004, 9:27 pm:
Suicide is a horrible thing to do for one. They are most likely not joking because if they are then they have a sick sense of humor. Just tell one of them that the other one said something good about the him and then tell him that the other one misses him and do the same for both of them. They'll end up calling each other and they'll be friends before you no it. If that doesn't work then try telling them how you feel about the situation and how you plan on committing suicide if they don't (lol, it might help) and if they are true friends to you they'll do what makes you happy.

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