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MiSsin HiM..
Well, ok my b/f moved to Oregon like 1 month ago and we are still goin out..coming up on our 11month anniversary. I miss him sooo much and i dont know what to do. There's this guy at my new skool that likes me and i donno if i like him...but i kinda flirt with him. I think that i do that cuz i miss flirtin with my b/f..even though me n my b/f talk every night..my heart aches all the time. I really donno what to do..i love him and yet we are so far apart. I dont wanna loose him :`(
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go visit him...hang at his place for a while like mabye ever other weekend
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I would talk to your b/f about it... but dont mention the whole flirting thing... see if you are ever going to see each other (in the flesh) again! No relationships never work when they are "long distance"... Mostly I think you should keep in touch and see how far you can go if thats what he wants tOo... most likely he is gunna start to flirt with other girls. Good luck*
Later*
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You say that you only flirt with that new guy, because you miss flirting with your boyfriend; yet you talk to him every night? It seems to me that you have the opportunity to flirt with him whenever you want; yet you are choosing to flirt with someone other than your boyfriend.
If you have the need to do that, its a beginning sign that the relationship wont work out because you're already having trouble staying faithful. Flirting with others is the first step to cheating.
Take a good look at your relationship with him right now, is it worth having a long distance relationship? can you and him both commit to not seeing other people while distance is an issue?
this is going to be a test of how strong your love is, and if you care about this guy, I suggest you not fail it.
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I think that the next time you talk to your bf that you should ask him what he thinks, maybe he likes someone elso too, don't feel bad b/c a long ditance relationship is really hard to keep going.
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We are in the exact same position...my boyfriend lives in a different state than me too...and there is this guy at school who i kinda flirt with cuz he likes me...but i dont like that guy cuz i love my boyfriend with all my heart...for me...i miss flirting with my boyfriend and being hugged...maybe thats the same thing for you too...well since you've been dating ur bf for 11 months...i would say keep going...hope everything goes well...good luck!!
<3 Alexa
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Yeah~ long distance relationships are hard to handle..but you can go through it! There will be other guys, but you're gonna have to handle that the right way. Wish ya luck with your relationship! Hope I helped!
-tori
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Phone. Sex.
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hey hun, your like me except me and my EX only live 20min's away but dont ever get to see eachother!!...it sux but ima let you kno your gunna make a mistake and do somethin with this new guy..i did it..
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well depends where you live, but if your young it will be hard to work this relationship out, most people dont. But all the more reason to show us teens you CAN work out a long distance relationship, sometimes love needs a fighting chance, and I think you'd be an awsome role model to all us teens that long distance relationships do have hope. GL
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i think u guys should juss go ur seprate ways and if he eva comes bax down where u live then u guys can hook up again a c where things go if u guys still have feeling 4 each other....i hope i wuz somewhat of help if u need me IM me @ LoudmouthBIA2004
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yeah long distance relationships are really tough because there are going to be other guys involved in your life, you could talk to your b.f and say something like this relationship isn't working because we don't see eachother if he moved to Oregon he must be far away but I don't know where you live so..
hope i helped
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I know long distant relationships are really hard, but you need to go and see each other. If theres just to long between each time you see ecah other, perhaps it'll be best if you had a break, i know it'll hurt you both, but long distant relationships are extremely hard, and sometimes better if they just don't happen unless your both totally commited to it working, which if you havent seen each other for a month it doesnt seem either of you are actually looking at your relationship very hard. So take a step back, have a look at your relationship, and see if it's worth it. Hope I helped, if you want anymore help, post me a message.
Good Luck :-)
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