[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? arlo answered Saturday October 23 2004, 11:56 pm: you can't just make a girl want to go out with you. you have to flirt with her first, make her flirt back, if she doesn't then there isn't much chance, but if she does then start asking her questions. what kind of stuff she's into, what kind of movies she likes, etc... then maybe say, if she likes horror movies, then ask her if she wants to go see the grudge with you, or something(that was just an example there's a lot better stuff to do then see a movie) this is the best advice i can give concidering all you said was "how do get a girl to go out with you?" so good luck, hope i helped.
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PerkyPeacock answered Saturday October 23 2004, 11:31 pm: generally helps if she likes you to begin with. but if she doesn't, do something sweet and try to win her over. most girls would prolly like it more if you noticed them for their minds, not their boobs or their butts by the way. so find a way to connect with her. make her feel special, but don't base all of it on how she looks. show her you can be compassionate, etc. [ PerkyPeacock's advice column | Ask PerkyPeacock A Question ]
XoKaLiLoVeSyAoX answered Saturday October 23 2004, 9:48 pm: hey ~ ! * you should just be nice to her and make her wanna be with you ~ ! * you should make her laugh, respect her space, and just be her friend ~ ! * don't force her to move into anything she's not ready to move into ~ ! * then when you're asking her be sweet and don't be nervous ~ ! * just relax, take a deep breath, and take the plunge ~ ! * hope i helped ~ ! * luv ya bunches ~ ! * <3 kALi ~ ! * plz rate me ~ ! * [ XoKaLiLoVeSyAoX's advice column | Ask XoKaLiLoVeSyAoX A Question ]
LiL_Tasha76 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 9:39 pm: well from hearing from a gurl who had alot of gerks..you really dont wanna be the guy gurls talk about in bad ways..so let me help you out
1.Flirt..then when you are just be really nice
2.ask her if she likes you ..."do you like me"?
3.Then tell her how you feel..
but one thing dont go any gushy mushy shyt right away....
4..never let a gurl run all over you..then they know you'll do anythin for them
5..not many gurls like guys who will do anythin for them ..well i sure dont
6..just be your self
Siren_Cytherea answered Saturday October 23 2004, 8:40 pm: Wellllll, you can't really "get" a girl to wanna go out with you. If she wants to, she wants to. If not, she doesn't. However, you can try to convince her to give you a chance by being really sweet to her.
But whatever you do, do NOT change for a girl. Don't change for anyone. If you're gonna change the way you act, change for yourself, not to get a girl to like you.
If the girl can't like you for who you are, you don't want to be with her.
So basically, be sweet, be gentlemanly (hold doors open for her and the like (that means stuff to girls, trust me)), be nice, be confident (but not cocky), but most of all, be YOU. Talk to her. You two have to be able to have a conversation, otherwise the date would be both awkward and boring. Lol.
I hope this helped!
-Siren =) [ Siren_Cytherea's advice column | Ask Siren_Cytherea A Question ]
Mesmerized answered Saturday October 23 2004, 7:54 pm: Awww. Lol, I'm sorry, I though it was kinda cute. The main thing is just be yourself. If she doesn't like it she's not the right girl for you. If you want to get it across that you like her, pay more attention to her, make her feel special. Hope I helped! [ Mesmerized's advice column | Ask Mesmerized A Question ]
Ask_Anything answered Saturday October 23 2004, 7:19 pm: well to get a girl to go out with you, you need to make sure she likes you! be really nice to her, and tell her if you feel confident enough. if she's interested she'll tell you- if not straight out, with little clues here and there. you'll figure it out! =] -ask_anything [ Ask_Anything's advice column | Ask Ask_Anything A Question ]
SweetBabi answered Saturday October 23 2004, 7:06 pm: well i think yew should just tell her how yew feel about her... give yew some compliments (true ones ofcourse) and let her knoe yur there for and all... [ SweetBabi's advice column | Ask SweetBabi A Question ]
paradiei3abii3x answered Saturday October 23 2004, 6:46 pm: Well yuu have to be yourself, but just talk to her and flirt with her and see what happens. Hope ii helped.
babiigurl076 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 6:33 pm: FLATTER HER! Give her cute compliments about just everyday things. Drop her hints that you want her:] Just don't flirt with her too much to the point of annoyance! Goodluck! GO GET HER! ;] [ babiigurl076's advice column | Ask babiigurl076 A Question ]
LiDdLeJeSsiCa9 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 6:31 pm: You can't GET a girl to go out with you. If she doesnt like you, then she doesnt like you. And if she does, thats great. But still.. you can try to get her to like you by flirting. Yes, guys can flirt too. lol. s0.just flirt, and get to know her a little better. Once she gets to know you, she might start to like you because of who you really are. But if she dont.. then you have to just live with that.
Hope I helped!
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live2rock answered Saturday October 23 2004, 6:19 pm: Well it helps if you ask her out and don't do it with loads of people around or she might think you're taking the mick. Other than that, flirt. [ live2rock's advice column | Ask live2rock A Question ]
ditzybrunett341 answered Saturday October 23 2004, 6:19 pm: haha well i mean i cant just answer tht 4 u, u knw i mean if she doesnt lik u then she doesnt lik u, if she likes u as a friend, then u knw giver her some time, maybe she does lik u and u knw hangout with her mor and tlk to her let her get to knw u as u knw lik maybe a bf then u can try askin her out. [ ditzybrunett341's advice column | Ask ditzybrunett341 A Question ]
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