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Question Posted Friday August 18 2006, 12:04 am

hey. okay so i have this guy friend. we were so close. told eachother like everything. i liked him a lot, and i still do. we tend to fight about stupid stuff but it only lasts a day if even that. and like he was at a friends house with a bunch of his guys friends and they IMd me talking all this crap to me and it bothered me a lot. and then knowing he was apart of it. told me to "go eat more mcdonalds" "fat whore" and all this other stuff. idk what to think about it. to be mad at him or to keep trying or idk what. there was these fake s/n's and he was talking crap to one of them about me and i was told about it and i asked him and asked if he was joking and he said "of course", but now that, that happend with all them i don't know what to believe. i like him a lot. and he was the best of friend i could ask for. what do i do ?

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VBabi13 answered Friday August 18 2006, 2:52 pm:
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Well hunny, friends don't mess around like that. I mean they do, but to a certain extent! If he likes you, he has a weird way of showing it. This is more like kindergarden stuff! I guess it shows his other side that you've never faced before. Before you jump into a relationship && admit you like this kid " a lot", try to know him; the real him. Also I think you would have to talk to him face to face...question him about what he said, ask him why would he do such a thing...you know? People tend to act different when they're around other certain people. If he acts like a total dick when he's with his friend, imagine what else he would do if you guys would "go out"! Best friend or not, he needs to grow up!

I can't tell you to drop him, && move on...I have no right in saying that! But all I can say is if you think he's "worth" your time, worth the tears, worth losing your other friends, worth talking shit over...then go for it. But I think you have a lot more "getting to know him" before you can say you like him a lot, && that he's your best friend! I guess we have different opinions on what best friends are! I hope you the best of luck...&& tell me how it goes!<3

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