Is it ok to just flirt? I used to like be obbsessed with different guys but now I just wanna have fun...is that ok?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MystikalAngel answered Thursday August 5 2004, 1:20 pm: Hello...
There is nothing wrong with a little casual flirting, as long as you are not causing problems for yourself or others. Try to steer clear of flirting with people who are already taken. More than anything its a respect issue. Some people have no problem with their boyfriend/girlfriends flirting, and see it as harmless. Others are not so secure and confident. You can unwittingly do damage to someone else relationship if you get caught flirting with them by their significant other. Not to mention the physical damage that sigificant other may do to you in their anger.
Plus its wise to make sure that unless you are truly interested in someone that you let them know you are only playfully flirting, and "just having fun". Allowing someone to misunderstand your playfullness may cause trouble, and you may end up hurting someone emotionally that you really didn't intend on doing.
Have fun, just be respectful, and mindful of your actions and thier consequences.
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SunKisZed08 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 12:32 pm: It's really ok to flirt with alot of guys. Just as long as your single when your're doing it.And you should watch, because you could get too carried away with flirting and forget your limitations and expectations.But if your not single then it would be an issue....Everyone likes to have fun and flirt once in a while, so its not just you.
LiLbLoNdIe18 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:25 am: There is definatly nothing wrong with flirting for fun. As long as you don't lead the guy to thinking you are interested in dating him. So as long as the guy knows its all in fun...flirt away hun
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BeezKneez answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:16 am: Well, no offense, but that's kinda mean JUST 2 flirt if u don't really have any interest in the guy. You shouldn't lead guys on 2 thinking that u like them if u really don't cuz then they could get hurt if they had feelings 4 u. [ BeezKneez's advice column | Ask BeezKneez A Question ]
hErEtoheLp answered Thursday August 5 2004, 11:00 am: Definatly! That's one of the funnest parts about being a woman. Just try to keep from doing it while you have a boyfriend... Have fun! [ hErEtoheLp's advice column | Ask hErEtoheLp A Question ]
lil_kati22 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:58 am: of course... its incredibly fun to do it so do it!! and if anyone tells you its bad then they are stupid... but if you have a b/f no flirting!!! i hope i helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box :)
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SwEeTeStSiN7 answered Thursday August 5 2004, 10:58 am: As long as you don't have a boyfriend yea!
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