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hey some of my friends are doing this thing when they all gang up on me and its really annoying and im not sure if they r my friends still and a lot of ppl say 2 just hang out w. the guys bc none of them r like the girls (talking about eachother) should i or just play it cool and stay w. my "friends"?
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i would go out and hang out with the guys i love hanging out with guys there's not half as much of drama as the girls and it's just fun! and i'd gang up on them with the guys just to get back then say you're even. but don't make it a big deal and don't do anything really mean!
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I wouldn't do eaither. don't play it cool,stick up for yourself also don't stay with your "Friends" because true friends don't do that to eachother. I would ask them whats going on, give them a chance to stop what they are doing. After that if they don't stop then I wouldn't be friends with them.
xoxo chels
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well that is true about the guys, they dont cause as much drama as some girls do. but if u still want to be friends with ur current ones then talk to them! tell them u feel like they are always ganging up on u, but do it calmly! and i would expand on who i hung out with dont just hang out with one group try to make other friends in other places! hope i helped
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That depends on how your friends are making you feel. When they gang up you, are they singling you out? Or do they gang up on your other friends. Don't let them belittle you are make you feel bad. If they are your true friends, then talk to them. Let them know that you are not amused by their games. If they continue to do it, drop them. You are better than that. Don't put up with it.
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look if u dont feel like they are ur friends....fuck dat...forget them distance ur self...i'm 17 (not that old ) but from my experience frome life...i c that guys are much better then gurls b/c gurls get jelous...gurls are weird....i've only like 5 gurl friends..(good friends) the rest are just a "hi" "bye" thing...guys dont hate on gurls...so they dont relly talk shit..or do stupid things like gurls do...feel me ;) so xoxo effy
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do what feels right. i just to have that problem. my friends would ditch me and call me name behind my back. So I started making new friends around the school. My new friends made me feel better about myself.... And you can never have too many friends. It help me, maybe it'll help you also. ~Good Luck` *samantha*
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welll if your so called "friends" are ganging up on you and being mean to you then they arent worth your time they arent really your friends... personally i rather hang out with the guys because they are kinda better then girls cuz girls always talk about eachother and they are whiney...
I hope I helped... if you ever need anymore help just drop one in my box!
Kati
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well if they are making you feel uncomfortable, then you shouldn't be around them. i had a friend once that was always mean, but i always hung out with her. if you do't like them, then you should break it off. but if you can't, then just think of good insults or something.
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