I can't stop crying... 2 more hours until my baby leaves for the Navy... I just want to get strong again and STOP crying. I have cried so much that its starting to hurt the rest of my body. I have heard the figurative phrase saying 'her heart hurts.' But I never knew that this would literally hurt my heart... If anyone has any advice or anything... I just don't know how to pull myself together...
twizzler2 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:52 pm: ok well think of how good of a thing ur boyfriend is doing for ur other people!! Now u can be proud and say "my boyfriend is in the Navy-helping others" You shud b proud i know its sad..but keep in touch with him with letters and stuff!!Think positive even if its hard!! hope i helped
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Mandee answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:49 pm: Aww, I'm so sorry babe!! There are of course a lot of negative points to this, but positive ones as well. Just think: This may be testing your relationship...you love him and he loves you, if you can manage holding this relationship together between the two of you, you'll have such a strong bond when he comes back. And when he comes back, in the time that he's away this will make you appreciate him more! Never give up on him even though he's gone, you can do this!! Take all the you need to cry..even if it's a month (lol) just keep the memories you guys have now and keep looking back on it. It might make you sad, but no matter where he is you still have him to love you! But if you really think you need to stop crying over this just lay down and drink tea read or do one of your favorite things. You could take a nice bubble bath, just get something to calm you. Bake a cake! Hehe. That's always fun for me ( of course i get cake mix everywhere) but other than that just basically find something you love to do. If you feel like going out shopping might help! It's a hard thing to deal with and your friends can help you, they can be there for you and help you get through it. And if you ever need anything, or to talk more about this, have more questions..things like that you know where to find me! I'll try and help too! But you'll be okay!! Good luck with everything, hun! Love Always, Mandee [ Mandee's advice column | Ask Mandee A Question ]
bballbrunette77 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:44 pm: As long as you keep in touch. Maybe by email, or phone, even cellhpone. Aways keep in touch. You could write letters to each other. Your baby needs to explore the world. Go to different places. Just keep in touch and you will excellento! LoVe Ya LoTs TaTeR tOtS! I hope I helped. [ bballbrunette77's advice column | Ask bballbrunette77 A Question ]
NicoleMarie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:43 pm: Be proud! Your boyfriend is risking alot by choosing that path. You are going to be sad..its a given. But you need to remember that it takes a heart of gold, a soul of steel, and love, to do what your boyfriend is doing. It's OK to cry, but don't let it effect your everyday life. What an honor it must be! My prayers and thoughts are with you.
(Oops! Sorry about the child thing!) [ NicoleMarie's advice column | Ask NicoleMarie A Question ]
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