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Question Posted Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:28 pm

I'm 13 and a girl I hate dumping people and my boyfriend like me a lot and I dont really like him any more does any one have any good ways to dump him I need help with out breaking his heart...thnx

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sunny answered Monday August 9 2004, 12:22 pm:
i had the same problem. u have ta dump him cuz the longer u wait the worse it will get.i wrote a note saying that i still like him but only as a friend and all that stuff ya kno.well i hope i helped .GOOD LUCK

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orphans answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 10:11 pm:
hes thirteen, just stop having your parents drive him to your house, take him somewhere nice(chuck e cheeses) buy him some tokens and say that you just want to be friends

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SwEeTeStSiN7 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 8:15 pm:
Tell him that you just want to be friends. That way you can still talk to him on the phone and do stuff with him.



xoxo chels

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PryNcEzzLiSSa answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:52 pm:
ok well yea i used to have the same problem do he just get on your nurves er you just dunt like him n e more b cuz when people get on your nurves you juss gotta get used too it b cuz well yea just give it time i mean if he really likes you that much its worth it ..right ...so yea good luck!

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xxhotsexycutiexx answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:39 pm:
the best way is make him not like u by acting the way he dont like a gurl to act....dats da best way...if u distance ur self u'll still hurt him...either way i dunno he will still get hurt
but if u act the way he dont like a gurl to act he will stop likin u
n will break up wit u :) xoxo effy

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bRuNeTtExdUdEtTe answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:36 pm:
make him not like you..lol. like you could start acting really possesive like your so in love with the guy to freak him out...haha just watch how to loose a guy in 10 days and do everything she does. That, or just distance yourself from him. Don't call as often, and make it sound like your always busy so you can hardly hook up, and he'll probably loose intrest and want to move on too.

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dontgetnobetter9 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:13 pm:
Well Ive been through the same thing. Wait maybe a week n see if theings can change but if not stop wasting ur time with someone u dont feel happy with. tell him to his face alone and tell him the truth n that u can still b friends.maybe things will change in the future!

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Cameron answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:12 pm:
tell him that you think it would be best to just be friends. just be nice and let him down easy, breaking is always hard to do = good luck!

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GC_rox_my_sox answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:09 pm:
Sorry to tell you this, but there's no way to break up with someone without hurting them. The best technique is to slowly start hanging out with other guys (don't kiss them or anything) and maybe flirt with them a little bit. That way your boyfriend will be more prepared when you dump him, and it won't be such a huge shock.

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livvy712 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 2:01 pm:
i would write him a note or talk to him on the phone but don't wait much longer cuz the longer you wait the more you'll lead him on... like maybe hes gonna buy you a braclet or sumthing then it will b even harder to break his heart after that. so write him a note or talk to him on the phone. but don't have a friend do it cuz then it shows that your not tough enough to tell him yourself. hope everything works out for ya.
.:*livvy*:.
p.s write me about how things work out. and if you need n e thing else just send me a message

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-wizerwordz- answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:58 pm:
just tell him how you feel and dont lead him on at all to believe that you still like him, but if u wanna keep him as a friend just tell him you can still be friends

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DoWnWiTh47 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:55 pm:
only one solution LEAVE THE COUNTRY

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shweetxtemptati0n answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:45 pm:
You could start doin things that he doesn't like or don't make it seem like he's ur whole world. He'll feel hurt of course theirs no way to not break a guys heart. But mayb he'll break up w/u

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Sweetie2oo4 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:45 pm:
really, no matter what you say or how you do it, it's going to hurt and be hard. all you can really do is be honest. tell him how you feel and that you think you two just need to be friends. hope that helps a little =)..xO`lexi

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Hotblonde123 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 1:39 pm:
wow! you have a bad problem. There is no easy way to dump a guy. Just tell him that you really just want to be friends and that maybe later yall could possibly get back together. I know i prolly didnt help much.

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