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ok so i liked one of my guy friends for like 6 months (since sweetheart) and finally when we were on a plane trip back from canada he asked me out. ofcourse i said yes and was extremely psyched. well, when i got home, my mom told me i wasn't allowed to date until i turned 16. so, i am 15 and i don't know what to do. it is another 6 months until i turn 16 and me and him have already made out and done a little more. so i don't know what to do. should i just hide our relationship from my mom? she knows we are friends, but should i wait until i turn 16 to tell her we are more than friends. and just pretend like he asked me out the day after i turned 16? please help! (link)
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I think that you should respect your mom's wishes. But this is kind of a don't ask, don't tell situation. If she ask's you if you are dating this guy you need to tell her the truth. But as long as she doesn't ask anything. Then what she doesn't know won't hurt her. This is a alternate route instead of lying because that will jsut get you into more trouble. Hope I helped!
Emily
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i have this problem. two years ago in school, these two girls(lets just say girl 1 and girl 2) and me were really close friends, but then when this past year came around, girl 1 just kind of stopped talking to me and the other girl. i stayed very close with girl 2 and were still very good friends, but girl 1 became more popular, and was apparently "too good" for us. it was really dissapointing and even though she would say hi in the hall and stuff on occasion, it made me really angry. do you think that i should try and patch things up with her and tell her that i still want to be friends, or just let it go, and forget that we were ever friends in the first place? thanx for the advise (link)
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I just want to say that if girl number one ditched you because she became popular, then she's not really your friend. Hope I helped!
Emily
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OK...i love this guy sooo much and ive been with ihm forever...but lately all ive been feeling is confused...and tonight i met this AWESOME guy who gave me butterflies and just made me happy. but then again ive been with my boyfriend for sooo long i cudnt imagine not being with him...im soo confused (link)
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dear confused,
I'm going to try the best I can to help you. But keep in mind, no one can tell you what to think, do, or say. But you can be influenced. So what I'm going to say is that, If you are devote to your boyfriend then you need t otry and ignore the other feelings you are having. But if your relationship is even a tad shaky, It never hurts to explore new things. Just don't do something you're going to regret. and last but not least. The most important thing is you need to listen to yourself and follow your heart because it won't steer you wrong I promise. I hope I helped!
Emily
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imma 14 year old girl..Soo..i guess i need advice on this one. I met this guy at camp..and after meeting up a little while after camp we started to like each other. i mean he's a great guy..nice, funny, and mighty fine!! only problem is..he lives like 20-25 min. away on like a highway..and he's so shy so i donno if anything will happen. soo jump on it, or wait it out? (link)
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Just want to let you know that I'm going through exactly the same thing right now. And If you really trust and you know that he would never do anything then don't worry about it. But if you are still concerned then you probably need to talk to him about it. If he know's it would upset you then he probably wouldn't do it. I hope I helped!
Emily
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ok im 16 but im on my lil cousins user name. i got this big butt. nd i tried everything. cuz i dont want this big butt. cuz like in the summer time wen i wear a bathin suit its gross. i mean im not fat wutz so ever. i exercise but it doesnt seem to work. if u kno how to help me make my butt smaller than thanks. (link)
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First I would like to say that I kind of have the same problem. Second, it's somewhat of an adcantage sometimes because a lot of guys are atrracted to large rears. But if you are really uncomfortable with it you can do two things. You can not worry about it and wear pants that are loose fitting so it doesn't show your curves as much. And also wear darker colors. Then there's the action approah. Try not eating as much fatty foods and the number one thing you can do is either roller blade or run. But rollerbladinng is the best. It uses almost every muscle in your thighs and your rear and if you start building up muscle the fat will start to disappear and TADA! a tighter smaller rear! I hope I helped!
Emily
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Hi everyone...I hope yo all can help me. I am looking for things to do with my Boyfriend that are sweet and romantic, but cost next to nothing. I am up for almost anything, any sugestions would be great. Thanks a Bunch ! xoxoxoxoxox Christin (link)
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One thing that I like to do is send things In the mail. People never get things in the mail anymore and it's fun to open up letters from people. Send him a little love note or a few hershey's kisses or something liek that. But make sure it's not hot if you send those they'll melt. But it's little things that make it better. I hope I helped!
Emily
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OMG! the creepiest thing happened to me today. i was on aim when someone i.m.s me saying that they are my g/f. from the start i knew it wasnt them. (my girlfreind lives on long island and i live in niagara falls). so i was confused. then all of a sudden this person started naming parts of my life from like 3 years ago. IT WASNT ANYONE FROM MY FAMILY (I JUST KNOW). SO...now im freaking out. i dont know who it could be and how they know all of this info! i never told anyone half the things this person said! what do i do to calm myself down and relax..and can someone explain this?!?! I RATE!! (link)
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First of all you need to chill out a little bit. Even though someone knows these things about you does not mean that they are out to get you. The could have gotten information about you in any typ of public records. But just to be safe you need to tell your parents or someone you trust. And if gets any worse you should probably report it.I hope I helped!
(breathe-in breathe-out)
Emily
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