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Love?
I have been seeing my BF for about 3 months now. I guess I should start off by saying I am 22 (almost) and have had nothing but really horible relationships. I just moved to GA in Feb and I found my current BF. He absoulty wonderful. I have always told past BF I love them. Being with this new guy has be amazing..even for 3 months. I am happier than I have ever been. I didnt know that people like him were really out there. My question is, do you think its too early for me to be in love with him. If not how do I tell him. (he already told me he's falling for me..(he didnt say the L word though) I just dont want to freak him out to bad, only cause of the short time period we have known each other. Please help...Thanks a Bunch xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Christin
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its not to early for that..i've been wit mah boyfriend for a year n 3 months now...and he told me he wanted to marry me after 3 months! we plan on it soon...u should just tell him u think u do love him and see how he reacts...dont come on to sudden with OH I LOVE U BLAH BLAH BLAH...that might scare him some if u dont feel exactly the same way....good luck to u both!
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Sit down with him. Just ask him how he feels about you. It's not too soon if you really feel that way. Your emotions don't have an alarm clock. If you think he really is falling for you, tell him the little things you love about him. He might come around then. Try telling him how you feel. Say something like, I just want you to know that its okay if you don't say it now, but when your ready, but i'm ready to tell you that i love you. If he does feel the same way, he may tell you he loves you too, or he may tell you that when he is ready to say it, he will. Keep your head up and let your heart be your guide. If you really love him, tell him how you feel.
Hope this helps.
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girl u is not to young for love love cna come at anytime and im proud tht u found yo mate, i mena if hes the one u think of evry mornin then thats yo man, and u cant be afraid to tell him how u feek u cant pas thi up, just tell him get him alone make it romntic and u juss tell him those 3 special words, im sure hell say the same and if he dont then its better to find out then rathger find out ina a more painful way. $M$
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okay well i dont think its to early to be in love... if its the right person its never to early... i think you should tell him... next time you are together sit him down in private and tell him like it is.. say " (name) i know we have only been together for 3 months but i really think i love you... dont be weirded out but you are AMAZING... and i cant help but be in love with you" say something like that... im sure he will understand... and maybe he will tell you he loves you 2... good luck!
Kati
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You can tell him other things than the absolute L word if you don't feel like you are ready. It took me about 4 months to say it to the guy I am currently dating. We have now been dating about a year and "serious" for 9 of those months. You could just wait a little longer to see if he says it. Don't rush into things, even when they are going really well. It's ok to start having those feelings.
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You're N.E.V.E.R. too young to fall in love. Yea, its only been 3 months, but thats okay! You can't control who you love, your heart does. And maybe he's thinking the samething you are, he doesn't want to freak you out by saying he loves you, because he seems like a great guy, so maybe he doesn't think you're ready to say it quit yet. Try talking to him and just being like "I know we've only known each other for 3 months, but you make me so happy, I've always had horrible relationships, but this relationship that I'm in right now with you, has been great, you always make me smile. You've told me you're falling for me and I know its only been 3 months, and I don't know how you feel and I'm not sure if you're ready or not to say it, but I do love you, and if you're not in love with me, then we can wait to say it til you're ready!" Just say something like that. Don't say exactly what I said lol, but whatever you heart tells you to say, say that! If you still need help with this, just leave a message in my inbox! Hope this helps and good luck hun!
xoxo Kourtney
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Well your not too young to be in love. And i dont think its too early to tell him. Give him a month or two longer. Just so you dont freak him out. But when you do tell him, tell him with words from your heart. Not from someone else's mouth. You dont want it to be artificial. Remember- you only meet 3 people that you can love and spend the rest of your life with. He could be one of them! ~Jes~
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