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I am 22 years old....And I dont know if I have ever had an Orgasam before. I am almost positive I have..Either that or I lead myself to belive I had one cause I have faked it so many times...I know thats mean. I have herd of females ejaculating...but that has never happened to me. If you are brought to orgasam, are you sopose to ejaculate or does this only happen to certain women. Please let me know different experiences you have had so I can better understand. I am 22 I feel bad that I am still confused with this issue (link)
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Well, i think you'll be able to tell the difference if you have an orgasam or not. you're 22 and i trust you have felt it before. Ejaculating. Isn't the same for us girls. It doesn't shoot out like it does from a penis, but if you've ever felt around your vagina after you have "gotten off" you'll get really really "wet"
If you have any other questions, drop me a line!!
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is it strange for a gurl to masterbate..i heard girls talkin one time and they sayd that it means your really desperate adn uncommon...is that true or is it normal? (link)
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It is not uncommon. 90% of females won't admit to masterbating. You probably shouldn't tell anybody about it if you are doing that, but if you feel comfortable doing it, then thats up to you. There is nothing wrong with doing it. you are just trying to find what you like sexually. And in the long run it will help you know what you want when you get involved with a partner (i'm talking about sex not masterbating).
Hope this helps. Any questions, Drop me a line!!
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Hey my boyfriend recently got drunk and while he was drunk he said a lot of sweet things he has never said to me before. He told me he wanted to marry me and start a life with me. I was wondering if that really could be true. Because he was drunk. Do drunk people say whats on their mind or make up bullshit? (link)
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drunk boyfriend.
Most of the time if you ask them if they remember what they said, they are going to say no. But that doesn't mean he didn't mean those things. You should sit down and talk to him and ask him how he feels about you. Tell him what he said and ask him if he meant what he said.
Tell him how you feel.
if you have any questions, feel free to ask!!
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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
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Sit down with your boyfriend AND your parents, together. Tell them. And go to your doctor to make absolute sure. Your parents may be disappointed but you can't hide it. If your boyfriend leaves you, he is stupid and immature. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel about being pregnant. Talk about your options, 1. keeping the baby. 2. putting the baby up for adoption. 3. abortion. Though i am not fond of that choice, it may be right for you based on your life. Don't feel that you have to be for it or against it. Think of how this baby will change your life. You have to think what you want to do and where you want to go.
But you need to tell them all as soon as possible. I'm not going to preach to you about safe sex, but if you have any other questions, feel free to send me a question.
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Hi everyone...I hope yo all can help me. I am looking for things to do with my Boyfriend that are sweet and romantic, but cost next to nothing. I am up for almost anything, any sugestions would be great. Thanks a Bunch ! xoxoxoxoxox Christin (link)
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You could fix him a romantic dinner.
Give him a sweet massage. Just rub his back and his arms.
Make a picture frame ($4 from walmart in the craft section) paint it, write "I love you" on it and put a cute picture in it of the two of you.
Write him a sweet poem and give him a teddy bear and tell him to hold onto it at night and think of you.
If your into the more "Creative" ideas, i have some, but i'm not for sure if that is what your looking for, but if it is, i'll tell you some more!!
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I need help. Fast! I'm going to my cousins tomorrow until friday and I was just talking to her and she told me about when she was swimming in the lake these 2 guys came up to her and she knew them but..they kept touching her and one of them hit her and left bruises and..then one of them went behind her n took her hands and held them behind her back and the other one took down her bottoms...then she kicked them but she cries all the time! She's scared to tell anyone..and she told me to promise not to tell...and I'm scared and I don't know what to do!
PLEASE help! (link)
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First of all, she needs to tell someone. Don't be ashamed to tell. What they did was wrong. Stay away from the lake if they are there. She will feel scared and might not want to tell, but keeping something like this inside could hurt her mental health in the long run. Please don't be afraid to tell someone. What they did is very wrong and they should be in trouble. Stay away from them.
I hope this helps. It may not be what you wanted to hear, but telling is the right thing to do. If you have any more questions, feel free to ask.
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I have been seeing my BF for about 3 months now. I guess I should start off by saying I am 22 (almost) and have had nothing but really horible relationships. I just moved to GA in Feb and I found my current BF. He absoulty wonderful. I have always told past BF I love them. Being with this new guy has be amazing..even for 3 months. I am happier than I have ever been. I didnt know that people like him were really out there. My question is, do you think its too early for me to be in love with him. If not how do I tell him. (he already told me he's falling for me..(he didnt say the L word though) I just dont want to freak him out to bad, only cause of the short time period we have known each other. Please help...Thanks a Bunch xoxoxoxoxoxoxo
Christin (link)
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Sit down with him. Just ask him how he feels about you. It's not too soon if you really feel that way. Your emotions don't have an alarm clock. If you think he really is falling for you, tell him the little things you love about him. He might come around then. Try telling him how you feel. Say something like, I just want you to know that its okay if you don't say it now, but when your ready, but i'm ready to tell you that i love you. If he does feel the same way, he may tell you he loves you too, or he may tell you that when he is ready to say it, he will. Keep your head up and let your heart be your guide. If you really love him, tell him how you feel.
Hope this helps.
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I have been going out with my boyfriend 4 a lil over 9 and a half months, but lately he has been acting a lil weird. Online and on the phone he has stopped saying, "I love you," and he seems 2 b more concerned w/ playing computer games than talking 2 me. When ever I see him though, he is his sweet, nice self. Does any1 know wit might b goin on? Or am I just making a big deal outta nuttin? (link)
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First of all, talk to him. tell him how you feel and that your concerened about your relationship. Something could be wrong and he might not be communicating. Don't assume something is wrong though. Just sit down and tell him how you've felt lately and tell him your worried that something could be wrong. If something is, don't pressure him to talk about it. Tell him you want to make sure everything is okay with the two of you and tell him if he wants to talk about it that you will listen. Pressuring him is bad, but tell him you want to talk. Be mature and try to control your emotions. Communication is always best in a relationship when you think something is wrong.
I hope this helps and if you have any other questions feel free to ask.
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