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I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help.
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you should tell your boy friend about it and see what he has to say about it, and then when the 2 of you decide what you want to do w| the baby tell your parents about it and tell them what u want to do. and if you wait long enough it will be too late to have an abortion if thats what you want to do.if you have any more questions put in in my inbox ! thanks x3 becca
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I am really sorry 2 hear that but i would tell my parents and my bf and if he really likes u then he would stay wit u through all of that and when u tell ur parents make sure u tell them if u wanna keep it or not and tell them taht u only did it once and of course ur parents will b disappointed sry 2 say but hopefully they will help u out and just make sure u know that u knew u did something wrong are totally sry * i really hope i helped some* :) *stephanie*
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Hey girl, listen.. i'm in the same boat. I'm 17 though and i think i might be pregnant! My parents don't know either just my boyfriend. I know my boyfriend won't leave me but my parents and family will be disapointed in me. :( You can't do anything about it. Don't be scared of your boyfriend leaving you. If he does then it go's to show you that he wasn't man enough to step up and be there for you and his child that he is going to have to raise for 18 years. You shouldn't do anything about it. You can't get stressed out over little stuff. It's not good while your pregnant. Just stay calm and if he leave's you what's the worst that can happen? You find another guy even better to take care of you and your child. If you love him i understand how you feel. I think i would be worried about him leaving me to. But if he does then let him go because if he love's you enough he will feel stupid and come back girl. Trust me! Guys are pretty much all the same. Hope i helped! GoodLuCk!
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shudda used protection
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Alright..well for one make sure your deff. Pregnant first because sometimes them tests are wrong, and two you need to tell your boyfriend then have you and your boyfriend sit down and tell your parents,They may be dissapointed, but they'll have to understand.
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Well in a couple months it'll be obvious on what happened. You have to tell your parents no matter how hard it is. They could help you through this especially your mother. They cannot force you to get an abortion or to make you put this child up for adoption but i got to warn you this will change your life forever if you keep this child. You will not be able to go out and have fun with your friends, you wont be able to be a real teenager again and these are supposed to be the best times of our lives. You HAVE to tell your boyfriend. This baby is half his and if you do keep it, he is required to pay child support for 18 years. It's a law or something like that i know of. If he really cares for you he'll help you through this. You better tell them before they figure it out or things will just get worse. Good luck and make sure what you do with the child is right..right for you not everyone else.
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Sit down with your boyfriend AND your parents, together. Tell them. And go to your doctor to make absolute sure. Your parents may be disappointed but you can't hide it. If your boyfriend leaves you, he is stupid and immature. You should talk to him and tell him how you feel about being pregnant. Talk about your options, 1. keeping the baby. 2. putting the baby up for adoption. 3. abortion. Though i am not fond of that choice, it may be right for you based on your life. Don't feel that you have to be for it or against it. Think of how this baby will change your life. You have to think what you want to do and where you want to go.
But you need to tell them all as soon as possible. I'm not going to preach to you about safe sex, but if you have any other questions, feel free to send me a question.
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wow...first of all that really sucks...but i guess you already know that...well i'd suggest if you think you're not ready to tell your parents at least tell your boyfriend...try going to a clinic or planned parenthood..they have doctors and therapists that can help you with EVERYTHING...good luck.. and god bless
xoxo Ren
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You have no choice but to tell your parents and boyfriend. And if he leaves, he's nothing but a boi, because he supposed to stand by his gurl and be a man. But if he does leave get ready to smack him with child support cause every penny is now gonna go toward that baby...they expensive. The sooner the better. Now abortions, I am Completely against it, I think every baby should be given a chace to pursue life, getting an abortion is like killing someone (but this is all jux meeh!) I think you should have the lil angel! Good luck! :) God Bless! Beebyez!
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Well you needa start by telling your parents. Yes its gunna be hard but what else are you gunna do wait till they question you on your belly getting big. The abortion thing should be up to you. I personally dont agree with it at all and if u dont want one tell you parents you want the child. As for your boyfriend hes gunna need to no and he needs to take responsibility for his child just like you...hope i helped..pleas rate
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Sry hun, you reaLLy gotta teLL someone .. u gotta teLL ur b/f and if he Leaves you for it, he doesnt Love you. pLus if you've onLy had sex with him, its not your fauLt. and you gotta teLL your mom. bcuz if you dont teLL, she'LL onLy get more mad ... bcuz they wouLd definateLy notice once ur stomach starts getting big!
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u rele need 2 tell yer parents b4 its too late
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u should tell ur parents...but if u really dont want to jjust figure out how u can get to a clinic to get an abortion....after everything is ova and done with then if u want to u can slowly drop the bob on ur parents
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Sweetie all i can tell you is take one step each day and i think it is best to tell your mom and dad and maybe they won't make you get an abortion and you should tell your boyfriend also because it is his problem too and he can't just leave you! Talk to your parents and your boyfriend and take care of yourself hunny!
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dear pregnant,
well first of all you didn't crawl on top of yourself and get urself pregnant. it's his responsibility too. talk to your parents. and tell them that you want to keep your baby. just dont' get an abortion. they have adoption agencies for your baby. i can get some info for you if you would like it. just leave me a message in my inbox. just think long and hard about this.
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You should take responsibilty for your actions and have the baby. Put it up for adoption,but anything is better than abortion. Your parents will be disappointed in you and your bf is shallow,so he's gunna leave you too. Your parents love you and they'll get over it. Carrying the baby for 9 months will teach you to be more careful next time. You have no right to end that child's life,no matter what the law says.
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Ok, first of all you shoudln't be having sex with your boyfriend if you think eh is going to leave you. He's not worth your time. And your parents will find out eventually. It's better to tell them without them having any suspection that you might be pregnant, you know what I mean? They will be proud that they have ano open relationship with you that you are able to discuss things like this. You should tell you parents and boyfriend first. Don't go around telling your friends because rumors will go around. Specially if your parents make you get an abortion you wouldnt wnat everyone coming up to u in the halls and everything asking you, or whispering. That's only for you personally. I'm not sayin your not pregnant but some pregnancy tests will show up postive if you have a yeast infection, bladder infection, or kidney infection. You basically have to tell your parents.
Hope I helped & keep me updated!!
*Laci
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ok........well you rly need to tell your parents i understand that they might be upset but in the end it will work out they will most likely be more disapointed that u felt u couldnt come to them!!and KEEP IT i mean its kinda your mistake but stay in school no matter what i kno you can do it two of my friends have babys and one is in collage and one is a senior so you can do it!! but just tell your parents!!!hoope i helped!!
*AmAnDa*
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i think you should have the baby. tell your parents. the longer you wait the madder they will be. (plus theyll notice when your even more pregnant.) i don't like abortion so I don't think you should have one. Plus you may regret it later in life.
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go straight to planned parenthood..i wouldnt tell ur bf just yet if ur 2 scared that he'll leave u...its going to be alright. but im telling you, goto planned parenthood..they have the nicest ppl there u will ever meet and they will do everything to help you..its going to be okay tho. ill pray for you..if u need more help come to me im here..
love kristin
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you NEED to tell somebody. you should try and tell your parents, they may not be too happy but im sure that if your parents love you they will try and help you.
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hey, its totally up to u, i mean do u want a baby rite now? 15?! its really young if it was me, id either get an abortion b4 a lot of ppl knew or out it up for adoption, it could ruin ur life, but if u want to keep it, then u can its all wut u want 2 do! hope i helped! <3
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