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This is 4 all the girls out there (but I guess guys could help too)! How do or did u get over ur boyfriend who just broke up w/ u? (Or if u are a boy, how do u get over ur girlfriend?) Well, it's totally draggin me down, but maybe sum ideas will help? (link)
Hey, sorry to hear about you and your bf. Don't let it drag you down. Try and go out with friends go to movies, to the beach and stuff like that. Don't let your mind get in that stage where all you do is think about him and how you miss him or you will start to do that. When my ex broke up with me i was totally depressed! I know how you feel. It took me like 3 months to get over him. Your gonna hurt for a while if you really cared for him. But, try and keep your self busy with stuff to do. It's totally cool to feel depressed. Everyone has to have time to heal. I hope i helped! :) Just try not to think about it and be strong you can get over it sooner! :) Oh, and the best thing to do and you may not wanna hear this but unless your good friends with him i would stay away from him for now because its only gonna make you want him back more. Unless you guys try and work things out i would stay completly away for now. Byes!


My boyfriend and I are going to become sexually active soon and I just have one problem. I told him I'm a virgin and I'm really not. No one knows that I've had sex once before and I cannot tell him or anyone because of specific reasons. He's not a virgin either, but will he be able to tell I'm not? (link)
Yes, he will be able to tell your "not" a virgin. If you've had sex before then the guy before had to of poped your cherry so when you and your boyfriend have sex and he thinks your a virgin and your cherry doesn't pop then he's probably gonna wonder why. Plus, your probably not so virgin tight like you was when you first had sex and he's gonna notice that to. Hope i helped! :)


I'm 15 years old and I'm pregnant. I don't know what to do and who to turn to. I've only had sex once with my boyfriend and I took a couple pregnancy tests, which all came out positive. No one knows about it and I'm so scared. My parents will be so disappointed in me, it'll kill me and they'll probably make me get an abortion. I'm also scared my boyfriend is going to leave me because of it. What should I do? I really need help. (link)
Hey girl, listen.. i'm in the same boat. I'm 17 though and i think i might be pregnant! My parents don't know either just my boyfriend. I know my boyfriend won't leave me but my parents and family will be disapointed in me. :( You can't do anything about it. Don't be scared of your boyfriend leaving you. If he does then it go's to show you that he wasn't man enough to step up and be there for you and his child that he is going to have to raise for 18 years. You shouldn't do anything about it. You can't get stressed out over little stuff. It's not good while your pregnant. Just stay calm and if he leave's you what's the worst that can happen? You find another guy even better to take care of you and your child. If you love him i understand how you feel. I think i would be worried about him leaving me to. But if he does then let him go because if he love's you enough he will feel stupid and come back girl. Trust me! Guys are pretty much all the same. Hope i helped! GoodLuCk!


What is your view on long distance relationships? I started one today.. and I am nervous because I've heard both positive and negative things about them... (link)
I went out with this guy that lived about 5 hours from me. It was hard because you always have that thought in the back of your mind that your not there to see if your boyfriend is flirting with other girls and if he is doing stuff behind your back. It's hard.. you have to have a lot of trust in your boyfriend. But if you guys love each other alot and you know he's fathful to you then it should be good. Me and my ex both drive so it was kinda easier to see each other. Anyway, i hope i helped! GoodLuCk! :)


iight...i'm dateing this guy that i love more than anything...but now i feel like he doesn't want me! well i wanna break up...but then i don't bC i love him....and then i wanna get back w/ my ex but my mom told me that i couldn't..i'm jst stuck and confused and things are going right and i jst don't know wat to do!? (link)
Hey, this is really weird because i fill the same way with my boyfriend and my ex boyfriend right now to.. I love my boyfriend more than anything but some stuff has went on and i feel like we don't love each other as much as we did and i want to break things off but i'm scared because i don't want to make a stupid move and i've been talking to my ex bf but my mom won't let me hook back up with him either. I know how you feel! Here's what i think you should do.. if you really love this guy that your with right now then just talk to him and tell him how you fill and how you think he doesn't want you. :( And if your parents are anything like mine.. how when they tell you that you can't do something then you can't. Then you can forget about your ex boyfriend unless your over 18. But i would just give it some time.. Maybe your just feeling that for no reason..? :/ I hope i helped! :)


i have recently been going out wit this guy i am totally in love with. he has cheated on me b4 but that was after i broke up with him. The first time we started going out everything was perfect and he told me he loved me and you could really tell he meant it. But we got in a huge arguement and he called me a bitch so i dumped him. He begged and begged me 2 take him bak but i wouldnt. Latley weve been goin out on and off and he cheats on me sumtimes. Is he doing this just to get bak at me or is he just not into me? (link)
Okay girl look, this guy doesn't deserve to have you. He sounds like a total jerk. You may love him and all but you need to let him go. Why would he want to get back at you? You didn't do anything wrong to him. He deserved to be dumped. Any guy that's gonna disrespect a girl like that by calling her names doesn't deserve to be with them. It might hurt trying to let him go but its probably the best thing for you to do. He sounds like a kid to me. But no he isn't doing all that to get back at you and why wouldn't he be into you? You just need to find you a different guy.




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