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missing him...
i have recently been going out wit this guy i am totally in love with. he has cheated on me b4 but that was after i broke up with him. The first time we started going out everything was perfect and he told me he loved me and you could really tell he meant it. But we got in a huge arguement and he called me a bitch so i dumped him. He begged and begged me 2 take him bak but i wouldnt. Latley weve been goin out on and off and he cheats on me sumtimes. Is he doing this just to get bak at me or is he just not into me?
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I think this guy is scared of comintment.. But if you keep taking him back he might think that he can still be with you and cheat on you because he knows he can use you as a re-bound, and he can always come back and he knows you will take him back. He deserves to be broken up with, even if he does love you. Why would he cheat on you if he loves you? And why would he call you that when you haven't hurt him, and you've been faithful? Hun, move on and find that special guy, there's one out there for everbody, you'll find the right one that treats you with the respect you deserve! I hope I helped!
Best wishes
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It kinda sounds like hes using you for something!.. you should ask him to flat out tell you if he wants to comitt to a relationship with you. and if hes gonna keep cheating on you, it isnt worth it.
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well for one how can he cheat on u if u ain't goin out??? and plus are u guys going out in like a friendly setting or is it like when u two were going out?? and if it was like u two were going out then either he is trying to get back at u or he thinks u don't know about it and if it is a friendly setting when u two are going out then it seems he is starting to think of u as more of a friend and he likes talkin to u he just isn't smart enough to know that u still like him or atleast i think u do by what u were saying
good luck
Gabe
PS: u guys wern't going out so if he is trying that hard i think u should take him back
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really if he cheats on you once.... he will most likely do it again... he's probably cheating on you because he's insecure about himself... or he thinks it's the "in" thing to do... but really you should just find someone that will treat you the way you want to be treated... hope i helped...
Jennifer
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Okay girl look, this guy doesn't deserve to have you. He sounds like a total jerk. You may love him and all but you need to let him go. Why would he want to get back at you? You didn't do anything wrong to him. He deserved to be dumped. Any guy that's gonna disrespect a girl like that by calling her names doesn't deserve to be with them. It might hurt trying to let him go but its probably the best thing for you to do. He sounds like a kid to me. But no he isn't doing all that to get back at you and why wouldn't he be into you? You just need to find you a different guy.
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you shouldnt be with this guy. i understand that you love him, but no guy should ever call you out of your name, especially calling you a bitch. and no one deserves to be cheated on. no one. i think you need to find someone better, thatll treat you like a human being. you dont deserve the bullshit he puts you through.
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i dont think he sounds rite 4 u.. if he really luved u he wouldnt cheat on u so i think u should talk to him but im not sure u should stay with him.. u deserve better
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see he might be in to u n all but he might not feel the way u feel he might jus be in it tobe a player....u never kno
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What are you thinking? Any guy that cheats on you is not worth it! Dump him! Ask him why he cheated on you in the first place then tell him that if he wants to be woth other girls he can be but it means that's over and don't take him back again!
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I don't know why he's doing it, but I'd sure dump his ass. Just because .. cheating = BAD, and it sounds like he's just being kind of, well .. blah + not a very good boyfriend. Talk to him about it + see what's been going on, and tell him that you are *NOT* going to put up with it anymore.
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well hes not cheating on you if you are not together... but if you want him back then tell him... if he says no then leave him alone, stop messsing around with him
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He's probably just scared of commitment. I say dump his a@$ and get someone worth your time. But that's just my opinion.Latas!
.::Chelsea::.
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im not sure about that it could be both...but if hes cheating on you you need to lose him he shouldnt be treating you like dirt its not right <- hope i helped ->
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Repeat after me: "once a cheater, always a cheater" Babe, you need to leave this guy alone and find someone that TRULY does love and RESPECT you.
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hes doing it cause he knows he can, shit y not? he doesnt love u the way he says he does..=/..i truely dont think so because if he loved u the way he says he does then he wouldnt cheat on u. so again, the reason why he is cheating on u is becaus he knows he can, cause he knows that ull take him back. BREAK UP WITH HIM GIRL and DONT TAKE HIM BACK THE NEXT TIME HE TRIES!!
~kristin
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maybe he just cant get his shyt straight, i had a guy like that, and i kept going out with him, but girl, hes not right for you if he doesnt just want you, he might love you, and you love him, but you need a guy you can trust too
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