ok, what is the best way to reject a guy without giving the "lets not ruin our friendship" speech and not making them hate you? THANKS :)
annie
xoxoxo
(15, f)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? BabiiBubbles answered Sunday August 1 2004, 3:28 am: I personally have always liked the "i'm not ready for a relationship and i've got too much going on" say you're busy, you have other things going on...You wouldn't have time for a steady boyfriend, and when you're with someone you want to be with them alot.. And hey, isn't that the truth? It's believable and it's true if your athletic or you have something that goes on in your life that keeps you occupied. I hope I helped!
blackmamba answered Sunday August 1 2004, 2:36 am: thats a tough one. just be completely honest and tell him you dont feel the same way as he does and it would be a lie if you two dated. i dunno thats what i said to my ex and were friends... good luck [ blackmamba's advice column | Ask blackmamba A Question ]
alderworth1 answered Sunday August 1 2004, 2:31 am: well i need to know circumstances of like who the guy is and stuffto really do that but just strait up tell them that u don't like them and i just for ur information please please please! don't give that stupid ass speach about i don't want to ruin are friendship
xo_dream answered Sunday August 1 2004, 12:40 am: Just tell him that you <3 being friends with him, but you really don't think you could be anything more. He should understand. [ xo_dream's advice column | Ask xo_dream A Question ]
xShAdYzBaBi3x answered Sunday August 1 2004, 12:38 am: Well You can tell them your not ready for another relationship rite now!! They should back off lol!! Or tell them ur parents wont let u date... (if they dont no u had a bf b4..) Or you can just tell them ur parents aren't lettin u go out with ne1 bcuz of sumthing u did that they didn approve of!! :0) <3<3 [ xShAdYzBaBi3x's advice column | Ask xShAdYzBaBi3x A Question ]
PuReLuVeR143 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:56 pm: if he asks you out on a date, be like, i cant see us more than just friends..but be TOTALLY nice bout it. then if he comes back like, well thats all i wanna be,[theyll say that sumtimes cause they just got rejected and they dont wanna look stupid] then be like, okay then lets go out and ill bring acouple my friends and u can bring acouple of urs.
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CheerMMS24 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:55 pm: Just tell him that you don't want a boyfriend right now, or that you like someone else. If you don't like him, you don't like him, there's nothing he can do about it, so he shouldn't get mad, its not your fault!
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Sexybabii9095 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:49 pm: just say your not into him that way, or you need to get to know him more, i mean theres no really good exscuse that wont hurt him, but id rather be told the truth then a lie by a guy [ Sexybabii9095's advice column | Ask Sexybabii9095 A Question ]
BlueEyedBlondie725 answered Saturday July 31 2004, 11:47 pm: Just be honest just be like "I'm not going to give you the speech about lets not ruin our friendship or anything because I'm sure you don't want to hear that, but, I just don't like you like that, I'm really sorry, I just don't see you like you see me like that." Just say something like that, something nice and not mean so you don't break his heart lol. Hope this helps and Good luck!
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