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want him back...but i got a boyfriend
iight...i'm dateing this guy that i love more than anything...but now i feel like he doesn't want me! well i wanna break up...but then i don't bC i love him....and then i wanna get back w/ my ex but my mom told me that i couldn't..i'm jst stuck and confused and things are going right and i jst don't know wat to do!?
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Hey, this is really weird because i fill the same way with my boyfriend and my ex boyfriend right now to.. I love my boyfriend more than anything but some stuff has went on and i feel like we don't love each other as much as we did and i want to break things off but i'm scared because i don't want to make a stupid move and i've been talking to my ex bf but my mom won't let me hook back up with him either. I know how you feel! Here's what i think you should do.. if you really love this guy that your with right now then just talk to him and tell him how you fill and how you think he doesn't want you. :( And if your parents are anything like mine.. how when they tell you that you can't do something then you can't. Then you can forget about your ex boyfriend unless your over 18. But i would just give it some time.. Maybe your just feeling that for no reason..? :/ I hope i helped! :)
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First, calm down. Ask your current b/f if he still loves you. If he says no, dump him. I know it's hard to go back with an ex. I think you should. If you two still truly love eachother go on and do it! Good luck! Rate me! xoxo, Maris
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im mostly sayin to her to follow your heart. and talk to your boyfriend and see whats up. and tell him how you feel. cuz the most imporant thing in realationships is bein able to communicate. you should find out why your mom doesnt like your ex. and if you really love your boyfriend you have now as much as your sayin you do then you wouldnt want your ex.
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I am familiar with this situation. It sucks so much, having parents against a relationship that you really want. (not to mention anything about breaking up sucks too.) But here's my advice... what does your heart tell you? Have you told your mother how you truly feel, and what your ex means to you? If not, I suggest you do. Also, how old are you? Your mother is probably just looking out for your best interest (which my mother was, until she realized that the person I wanted to be with was really an amazing guy who cared about me a lot.) If somehow you can show your mother your feelings, things should start to get better.
Best of luck. Please feel free to leave me a message in my inbox if you need anything else. Because as I told you, I know how this situation feels.
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I just got out of a relationship like that. I just decided to break up with my boyfriend because even though i loved him I loved my ex better. So figure out which one you love better then i think you've found the answer for yourself. Also give it a few days to think over it because you don't wanna regret your desicion.
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This is definitly a tough spot you are in. I think you should talk to your boyfriend about why you feel he doesnt want you. Maybe it's just a misunderstanding. Don't break up with him inless you are absolutely for sure about it. I dont quite understand where your ex comes in but i advise you to stay away becuase your ex..well he's ur ex. I think the best thing you can do is talk to him about how you feel. If he loves you then he should understand. Good luck with whatever you choose. Do the right thing.
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This exact thing happend to me . My dumb college boyfriend in California ... (but yall dont want to hear bout than now do ya !!) If ya only do one thing 1 thing follow you heart . even if it means disobeying you mom. If you really feel you love him then sit down and talk to him about how you feel and how he feels I hope he tells you just what minesaid to me " i love you more then anything and i'm gunna fix this just you wait" soon after everyingt was better and were still awsome 2 yrs later !! good luck to ya and im me when you work it out aright? (xsaphireBabii516)
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if u feel he duzent want u, then talk to him about it. and be like if u dont want me as yer gf any more juzt tell me. u shud like comunicate with eachother bout that. and if u really wanna brake up w/ him then juzt do that. and i dont think u shud get back w/ ur ex cuz i mean u guyz most likely broke up 4 a reason. and u love the guy ur with now, so why r u even thinkin about being w/ another guy?
Xo HoPe I HeLpEd oX
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Break up with him. Just do it before he can... if the feeling he doesnt like you rubs off onto you then your probably right. And just b/c you cant get back with your X doesnt mean lifes over. Not having a boyfriend for a little wont harm you. I promise. Try and take it easy for a few monthes... and if you really want to be back with your X... go for it... tell your mom you guys are just good friends. When it comes to that situation you cant always obey parents.. as long as you dont cross the borderline and do something unhealthy for yourself.
good luck
xoxo
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if you love your boyfriend more than anything, then you dont need your ex. besides, you guys probably broke up for a reason
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ok well first of all how old are u because u mentioned that ur mom wont let u get bac wit ur ex?........and secondly if u love the guy ur dateing now dont even think about this otha guy cuz its jus not right to dis him like that.But on tha ohta hand i get where ur coming from becaz the guy u go wit now "seems" not to lik u as much. Wait now im confused!!!! but seriously consider things how they are now. plz rate me. i hope ive helped! Good Luck wit ur boyfriend problem! i hope all goes well!!!!
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well i think that you need to go and have i talk with ure current boyfriend, and tell him how you feel. Then if he says that he doesnt want you then you can see weither you are going to dump him or not... If you need more help when you ask him im blake08....just ask
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Well I Wuldnt Listen To My Mom Unless My Ex Really Hurt Me But If I Was You I Wuld Sit Down With My Mom And Ask Why I Culdnt Date My Ex But Then Again If I Really Love My Bf I Would Stay With Him And Just Talk To Him And See Wh yhe Makes Yah Feel That Way But I Would Stay With My Bf That I Have Now And If That Dont Work Out I Wuld Talk To My Mom About my Ex
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Ok first off, there must of been a reason why you dumped your ex, or why he dumped you. Never ever ever get back with your ex. I suggest you dump this guy and stay out of relationships for a month or two and straighten out or head, thenfind somebody new.
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Well...if you love him so much then why would you want to break up with him? Don't do something you'll regret..I'm sorry thats all I could say..Hope I helped!
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