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hi everybody. Im 14 well im pretty much not ur "average everyday" teen. i get all a's and i love extra cirricular activities. Im into tennis and basketball. i take dance and play the violin.
i like going out and shopping like any other teen aged girl. But believe me, im way less than perfect. but thats still alright. i like listening to hip-hop,rap,r&b,dance hall,soka, and other diversed types of music.and trust me i love to dance!!!! well now that u know a lil' bit more about me please let me answer ur questions. i am a very trustworthy person and also a good advicer. if u have any personal or public problems, please ask me.thanks.see u round
E-mail: baby4real92@2yahoo.com
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Location: Maryland
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Age: 14
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Hey, does anyone know if it's true that brushing your teeth with salt once a month makes them whiter?? (link)
YES SALT WORKS PRETTY GOOd!!!!


my boy friend is here right now I am so in the mood roght now but I have a promice that I wont lose it ( virginity) till I get married but I want to so bad what do I do help me (link)
If you want to get into heaven without a heavy sin I'd advise you not to have sex!!!!(KISS 4 A LONG TIME or something..lol!)


hey,
I have this friend and he used to like me for a long time and at the time i didnt like him...i really wasnt in to him! then he started go out with one of my best friends....i kinda started liking him and then they broke up and i liked him even MORE! i really wanna go out with him now and he like 2 of my other best friends! he is constantly talkking abotu those 2 girls and it seems like when he does i get more and more depressed about it! should i stop talking to him..or should i tell him...or should i just try to change the subject? plz help me
thanks

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First of all, thanks for asking me this queston!!
I'm so happy. But anyways my advice is to be open to him and your friends too. Maybe he still likes you but thinks you don't like him? Study shows when somebody likes you they flirt with other people to detract attention from there even being a possiblity they like you. I think you should talk to your friends first and see how
they feel about him. I hope they are understand- ing friends? Good Luck!!!!!!!!
RATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


this is kinda long so bear with me! :)

a lot of the friends i made were from middle school and we've been friends throughout high school. the thing is, they were a-ok people in middle school. but when high school rolls around it appears that they've changed into hypocritical, outspoken, dramatic, and selfish people. don't get me wrong, i'm not exaggerating nor am i taking things out of context. if you met them, you'd know! take for example a girl who makes fun of the fat people in our school, when she weighs 200 lbs. a girl who complains and whines over an A- on a test. someone who cannot accept the fact that they are wrong. someone who doesn't make any effort for your birthday, or christmas, when every year you get them something.

because of their "new" personality traits, i dropped them because they did not fit my basic ideal aspects in a friend anymore. and whenever i find a new friend, in the end they end up betraying my trust, using me for money, or being just plain inconsiderate to a point that i cannot tolerate anymore.

note, this has happened with nearly 95% of the friends i've had my entire lifetime...

i'm not a bad person for them to be obligated to do such things, but i do admit that i can be a little too trusting and naive at times. is that what they're taking advantage of, or is there something else...? why would they do this to me?

also, because these experiences have given me a new perspective on friendships (not to trust people so easily!), how do i know if i can fully trust someone and that they will be a good friend??? (link)
Hey. I know how you feel. I have never in my life had a best friend and I still don't til' this day! But I have 3 best friends and I didn't imediately trust them. They had to show me that they could be trusted. And now we all trust eachother, respect each other and we all just have a storng unbreakable bond.
But, before any friendship you have can be like that, you have to take your time and get to know the person. Don't rush into things. It's just like a relationship with the opposite sex. Before you fully trust that person you have to get to know them.
Before, I was like you. Jumping from friend to friend, trying to find one that would actually respect me for who I am(what I believe to be a good person). So don't ever stop looking until you find that person or those people who you can call "friend".
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Does anyone have any websites with charts on average weights and stuff?
thanks! (link)
www.google.com(search engine)or
www.yahoo.com(more search engines)


whenever a guy and a girl makeout, why do the guys always asked if the girl liked it? (link)
its very common 4 a guy to ask such questions. they are jus curious of how they are doin in a relatin ship. its lik advienators u ask a question, som1 answers it and u rate them.Hope i have feed ur curiosity. Jus lik a boy, always asking!!!


how do i explain masterbation to my stupid boyfriend?!?!?!?!?!!?!?
you answer i rate! Gareented or ur answer back:)......lol!
BTW: im 17 (link)
hi


iight...i'm dateing this guy that i love more than anything...but now i feel like he doesn't want me! well i wanna break up...but then i don't bC i love him....and then i wanna get back w/ my ex but my mom told me that i couldn't..i'm jst stuck and confused and things are going right and i jst don't know wat to do!? (link)
ok well first of all how old are u because u mentioned that ur mom wont let u get bac wit ur ex?........and secondly if u love the guy ur dateing now dont even think about this otha guy cuz its jus not right to dis him like that.But on tha ohta hand i get where ur coming from becaz the guy u go wit now "seems" not to lik u as much. Wait now im confused!!!! but seriously consider things how they are now. plz rate me. i hope ive helped! Good Luck wit ur boyfriend problem! i hope all goes well!!!!


im very VERY curious..im 13..never had sex before..and i am just wondering..what exactly do you do during sex?...what is it like..if you can..someone please tell me everything! (link)
13 AND U DONT KNOW! VERY SAD BUT IT DONT MATTER DEPENDIN' ON WERE U LIVE THIS COULD B VERY SAD OR VERY NORMAL. JUS TELL UR PARENTS, THEY WILL LET U KNOW WHAT THEY THINK U NEED TO THEN COM BACK TO ME AND ILL FILL IN THE BLANKS.(BTW : IF UR PARENTS DONT ANSWER U GOT ME TO COME BAC TO)
REMEMBER : RATE ME !!!!!!!!PLZ!


eee... so tell me how weird i am if I am horny ALL the time. morning noon and night and i'm not doing anything to be so? Ok so i'm not always horny but like 75% of the damn i am. I'm a fucking girl... i shouldn't be this horny all the time, should I? god, anything gets to me. Guitars, voices, songs. I'm weird. sometimes even the though of guys in panties hahahahahahahahaha

I dunno, i'm just crazy.... ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh
thanks... (link)
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im moving from houston tx to boston MA and i really like this girl. i dont know wat to do, and i know we cant get to together but i really like her. help?!?! (link)
o wat tha hell! who cares if ur movin. its never to late to start a relationship. if u think its one of those once in a life time girls then hey buddy go 4 it. if she got ass and chest im fillin it !
sike!
i hope i ved helped you out in some way! o and by the way please rate me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!


im movin to boston, and wat r ways to meet girls and guys. im in some activities, but those r mostly guy things like football and lacrosse. how can i meet some girls? (link)
i never really been to boston but ur best bet is to join as many school program as possible and if u go to church u can join teen groups and things. u can look all around like ur nearest rec center(recreational(community)center)and most
likely u will find people ur age there.


well theres this friend i have and i always catch her in lies. a lot of my other friends do to, so we all know she lies. i never really wanted to confront her about it, but the other day she got mad at me, and we were fighting so i told her that i noticed that she lied ALL the time, and i even gave her examples, but she still says she didn't lie. well we all know she did, because she tells us all different things. well now we're in a big fight, so i don't even think i should have brought it up in the first place becasue i hate fighting,which is why i never brought it up before. so now what should i do? (link)
well if she lies that much she must not be much a friend now is she. a real friend always tells the truth unless its something that will really hurt. its ur desicion but my suggestion is 4 u 2 drop this sista..lol. i hope i have helped.


He loves her right?
She was so pretty..
He had such great teeth
She pushed him away
He didn't stay
But she knew he'd come back
So she could lay her head..
on his warm lap
But he never did
and so she bled

For every inch that peirced her thin
weary, tired, aching skin
she thought of him
But he wasn't there to dry her tears
or wipe up the crimson blood that stained
The knife she had
For every sapphire tear she shed
she would cut that much deeper
and so she bled

Girls like her just didn't slice
There flesh with kitchen knifes
The cold metal felt like ice
She was so pretty
and so was he
She didnt think this through right
she peirced her flesh instead
pretty cheerleader just broken inside
and so she bled

Last breath, what's left to say?
She thought of him
Her life was just one big cliche
Tragic story ending with a broken heart
She remembered everything he said
but he's gone now..

and so she's dead. (link)
O my goodness! what a beautiful and well wrote poem. u could make alot of money of of that,lol. but seriously, have u ever thought of writing a book or something? i can really hook u up.that is very good 4 a 14 yr old. u must be very smart and with no doubt, talented. good luc.


lately i been having troubles with friends. and it has upsetted me pretty bad. im the type of person that things bother more then most people. its just who i am. but ever since i started having problems with my friend (its been 1 or 2 weeks now) i have totally just cut down eating. like i didnt even notice it until i realized i lost 10 pounds in this short amount of time. i cant really help it i just been kinda upset and i cant really change my situation with my friends for a while. we just have things we have to figure out and everything! i dont know what i could really do to eat more and not lose weight. i have tried to eat a little more then i have been these past couple weeks but if i do i just throw up. its like my body rejects food. what should i do? (link)
this really sounds serious. i think you should tell some one or see a doctor. This is more than going on the internet and asking people u dont even know. please take my advice. you can seriously hurt ur self. TELL SOMEONE!!!


well the past 3 years me and my ex have been talkin every single day on da phone.. he calls me everyday and he is so sweet to me and so am i but we havent seen each other for 3 years never.......i kno its weird but i kinda liked da way he waz with me and how he called me everyday anywayz today i went to see him and omg i think i like him alottttttttttttttttttt......but i dont know what to do he called me today and we were talking about each other and eerything please help me i like him alot (link)
well first of all you should think about why u broke up wit him in the first place. And if u do like him do u like him for the right reasons. if he did something bad then analyze how bad it really is and if he has really changed,and u think he is the one,go out with him. but if he is a jerk and u know he is going to treat u wrong again,shoooooo.Fo get 'bout homeboy. i dont care how fine his *ss is!Good Luck:)!!!!!!!!




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