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my head is spinning
my boy friend is here right now I am so in the mood roght now but I have a promice that I wont lose it ( virginity) till I get married but I want to so bad what do I do help me
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i think, if you think you are ready. and you want it. go for it. but just think of all the out comes.. you could get something and die. but hey! do what ever you think is rite for your self. (the promise doesn't mean anything, every one breaks that promise!!!) but yea. do what you think is rite for your self. and i wish you the best in life.
-h.i.h
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well, look at a picture of an ugly person and you'll get out of the mood. and if your boyfriend is there, get off the computer and go play chess with him.
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youll regret it if you do it. i can almost garentee it.
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just don't do anything you don't want to... if it is against your priniples, then DON'T DO IT
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Okay...Listen up...there are two ways you could go...You could either give up the promise...or just not go there. And if you really think about it, there is another solution...oral...hangjobs...clit licking...you two can do any of that stuff...have fun and enjoy. And you can masturbate if you're THAT much in the mood.
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Make sure you boyfriend knows about your promise. If he's aware of it, he can help you keep it.
Don't let yourself get put in situations that are that tempting. Keep the lights on, play a board game instead of watching a movie, hang out with other people, take a walk outdoors instead of cuddling inside... there's lots of ways to decrease the temptation for sexual activity and still have fun with your boyfriend.
You didn't say, but if your promise about your virginity is with God, prayer can really help. Also, read Bible verses dealing with temptation, sexual sin, etc. Daily prayer is really important in keeping faith alive. When you find yourself tempted to go beyond your limits, stop, get out of the situation, and pray.
Hormones are tricky things. You just have to remind yourself that "this too shall pass" and
think about the bigger picture. If you give in to temptation and have sex now, breaking your promise, you'll most likely regret it later. You're better off staying true to your promise, even though it seems really hard right now.
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If you want to get into heaven without a heavy sin I'd advise you not to have sex!!!!(KISS 4 A LONG TIME or something..lol!)
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i think its ok, you can do it
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just do everything else besides sex then.
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Keep your virginity, I had promised that to myself, and I didnt keep the promise. More than likely to do it now you will regret it, I do. Because now me and the guy arent even together.
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how about dry sex.. basically do everything besides sex.. remember there are so many risks in sex and if ur not ready to take them dont.. there are lots of other ways to have fun
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If you made a promise that you won't lose your virginity until you get married, then you should not break it and wait until you are married to have sex. But if you feel that you are ready and want to have sex with your boyfriend, then go right ahead and have sex with him but promises are to keep and not break. It's your life and you can do what you want to do and no one can stop you. You should seriously think about this; would you rather break this promise and have everyone be disappointed in you or just keep it until you are married?
-Karen
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its not right to have "it" before your married. keep that promise and youll be fine. you can do other stuff w. him just dont do "that"
~nat~
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If this promise was made to your parents then keep it. If you don't then you could get in trouble with your parents and something else.
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Ask your boyfriend to go home. If you can't handle the pressure, and he can't either, ask him to go home. It isn't right to lose your virginity until you get married just because of a mood swing. (I'm a girl and hate to call them that, but that's what they are) Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you are not going to lose your virginity with him, that you're going to wait until you're married. If he doesn't accept it, then he's not the guy you need to be with anyway. Pray for strength.
-FunnyCide
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If you made a promise then you should keep it...you should not have sex until you are married... =]
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