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No Big Deal?
I have been going out with my boyfriend 4 a lil over 9 and a half months, but lately he has been acting a lil weird. Online and on the phone he has stopped saying, "I love you," and he seems 2 b more concerned w/ playing computer games than talking 2 me. When ever I see him though, he is his sweet, nice self. Does any1 know wit might b goin on? Or am I just making a big deal outta nuttin?
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maybe he feels like when he is on the comp playing his games he is having some time to hiself. dont take it personally, hes still being sweet to you when he sees you. a little space is always good. you dont have to be telling eachother i love you all the time, you know the loves there.
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First of all, talk to him. tell him how you feel and that your concerened about your relationship. Something could be wrong and he might not be communicating. Don't assume something is wrong though. Just sit down and tell him how you've felt lately and tell him your worried that something could be wrong. If something is, don't pressure him to talk about it. Tell him you want to make sure everything is okay with the two of you and tell him if he wants to talk about it that you will listen. Pressuring him is bad, but tell him you want to talk. Be mature and try to control your emotions. Communication is always best in a relationship when you think something is wrong.
I hope this helps and if you have any other questions feel free to ask.
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he might have problems at home or the spark might be going out of your relationship... but it might be nothing so talk to him about it! i hope i helped if u need anymore help just drop one in my box!!
Kati
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ok ive had the exact same problem with every bf ive ever had, sometimes us girls, when we really like someone, will get perinoid and worry when its not nessicary. so chances are, if hes sweet to u in person ur prolly just getting scared for no reason! but if u need to know from him id ask him about it, ask him if theres anything hed like to talk about, any problems! but no worries sweetie! hope i helped!
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He prolly thinks you already no that he loves you and maybe he feels he needs his alone time as long as he is nice in person and his personality dont change in person then its all good! dont worry about it will be lyk normal soon probally!
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Hey!I think that maybe you should just talk to him about it..Maybe he doesn't know hes doin that..guys are like that sometimes.You might just be blowin this out of proportion too.Well I hope I helped!GOOD LUCK!Any more ?'s just ask!
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yeah after that long of going out the guy just seems to get so comfortable with u and him going out that he doesnt feel he has to say i love u and call u as much.. cuz he knows u know he loves u.. tell me how it works out.
much <3.
--later.!
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he prly feels liek he don needa say it bc u already kno!! either tht or jes just pre occupied! i think its fine as lnog as he sthe same in person! ask him about it..maybe he doesnt kno hes doin it! gl hun!
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