|
Just Gonzo confused.
Okay, so there's this really cute guy that I really like. Yesterday, I found out that he likes me. Naturally, I'm stunned. He starts holding my hand, and rubbing my shoulders, and nibbling my ear, but something inside me told him to stop. Now he doesn't like me anymore, because I told him to stop. I don't get it. That's what I dreamed of. That's what I had wanted, and I told him to stop! Geez, I'm all confused. Was it wrong? Is it all for the best? Am I right? Am I crazy?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Miscellaneous category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Random Weirdos?
If he really did like you, then he would still be with you and respect you and your decisions. It was a good thing that happened, so now you know what the kind of person he really is like.
]
I'd say that if something inside you told you that what was going on wasn't supposed to be, then what happened was for the best. If you don't know each other that well and he starts doing all this stuff, I'd be weirded out too. Plus it seems weird that he'd get all upset so fast...I mean, he should try and be a little more understanding. You're probably better off without him. LISTEN TO YOUR INSTINCTS.
]
you probably followed your heart!
-xxoBrianna
]
nothing is wrong with you at all for stopping him. And if he doesn't like you anymore bc of that then its a good thing that you stopped him b4 anything else happended
]
if something inside you says for him to stop, then there was definitely something wrong with that situation. you're not going to get a feeling like that for no reason, so always go with your instincts. don't worry, you'll probably find someone better, and you're insides won't want him to stop when he's nibbling your ear. THAT is who you want to be with.
]
i understand how tough it is when the guy is sooo good lookin! he he! but anything that makes you nervous or uncomfortable, you shouldn't do. stuff like that is only wrong if one person involved doesn't want it happening, you'll find someone else who's cute, and respect you. you were right in saying something, and we're all a lil crazy ;)
]
Okay, well I don't know how old you are, but I hope I'm right in guessing early teens.
To answer you questions in order: no, probably, yes, no.
And now for the science:
These little actions can be seen as him trying to 'make a move' on you [especially the ear nibbling!], which you might be a bit nervious about. Also, I would guess you don't really know each other, and they are the sort of thing one does when one is more fammilier with a person.
And really, if he stopped liking you just because you didn't want him making sexual overtures then there is somthing wrong with him and you are better off with out him.
Maybe you could try talking to him to see what his deal is. Good luck :)
]
I don't know how old you are but no matter what age you are, if you "really" like someone there are others ways to get to know each other before jumping into intimacies. If you like this guy, fooling around w/him should not dictate how he feels about you. Have some respect for yourself and tell him to back down a little bit if he doesn't respect that then your relationship would have been short lived anyway. Guys like that only want one thing and they will move on when they are satisfied or have found another victim.
]
Okay it wasn't wrong, it was for the best and your right! It is okay to be confused sweetie. Maybe the reason you told him to stop is because you didn't feel right or your not ready but you might of dreamnt of being with him for so long that when it actually happened you thought it was to good to be true so you wanted it to stop before you got hurt. I don't know if i made sense but i hope so. like i said maybe you weren't ready for that right now.
]
Maybe you weren't ready for stuff like that to happen just yet. Just tell him you wanna take things slow and get to know him better so you'll feel more comfortable! Rate me plz xoxo goodluck babez!
]
You're not crazy. You're also not right or wrong. Only you know why you told him to stop. Maybe, subconsciously, you know you aren't ready for a relationship or maybe you're scared of your feelings. Talk to the guy and let him know how you feel once you've cleared your head. Tell him you weren't brushing him off but are confused. Maybe if you talk it over, you will work it out.
]
More Questions: |