|
should i just deal with it?
ok well me and my whole family always fight and they always blame me for everything and they make me feel like they dont love me and everything and i started to think does my family love me? and i think they dont so now i got the feeling that i shouldnt be living becuz i have no one that loves me so i think i should just kill myself i've always solved my problems by cutting myself becuz i think it makes the pain go away but now im starting to think i should kill myself or something what should i do i really need some help and quick becuz i might do osmething i might regret later on
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Families?
you are going exactly what i went through and sort of am still going through.
my family (parents 'n' 1 sis) and i have NEVER gotten along, and i mean never by, not even on family vacations,or during dinner at a resturaunt etc. i really started to hate my life and i felt like they didn't love me or care about me. so i started cutting myself and i went into depression. bad choice. it really caused my family a lot of grief and depression.
i told my family my reasons of cutting. so i had to go to the doctor, and they referred my family and myself to a counclier. she really helped me to get throught the problems i was having with my family and make it more enjoyable as i spent time with them. so maybe you can go to a family counclier? the counclier helped a lot, but not as much as i needed, so i had to make an effort to want a better relationship with them! and so far i have been happier with them, BUT occasionally we still get fight, but hey, what family doesn't??
btw ur family loves u even tho it doesn't seem like it :-p! take care.. and STOP cutting urself please, its not worth it, try to find other ways to cope with ur frustration! :-p
]
Plz don't kill urself! That won't solve ne problems! Just sit down with ur family and tell them how you feel, they'll most likely understand you and try and help. Killing urself is no solution, and if you have to, live your life inspite of them but plz stop cutting urself and plz stop thinking about killing yourself, you only get one life, make it worth living!
.::Chelsea::.
]
ok...talk to your familt tell them how u feel what is wrong try to get them to understand!!but w/e u do dont kill yourself you dont hva eto tell them u cut and evrything but try talkin to them and if that doesnt work try a conselor or somthin like that 9it might help!!i hope i helped!!!
*AmAnDa*
]
dont even think about killing youself, you were put on this earth to live, and you shouldnt die that way. im sure your family loves you, just talk to them and tel them how you feel, i bet they don't know how your feeling. you have lots of stuff to look forward too, so dont kill yourself. i hope everything works out - shelby
]
ok im gonna try not to be mean and just be straight with u.. you're not cutting because u dont wana live you're cutting because you want attention.. just think wuts the reason you're doing it.. because you feel that no1 loves you and no1's paying attention to you... so thats wut you want.. i noe that it's hard but dont hurt yourself.. LET THEM KNOW.. dont do stupid things.. xOxO -des*
]
SAY SOMETHING TO YOUR FAMILY!! you dont have to tell them about sucide or cutting if you don't want to yet, but u definently need to say how they make you feel, im almost positive they really dont want you to feel like they dont love you, im sure they do. and u shld really think about telling them, or someone you trust about cutting...or just stop, you can also try putting a rubber band around your wrist and snap it every time you feel like cutting yourself...good luck, hope you feel better!
xoxo Ren drop one in my inbox if ya need me
]
okay well you definetly shouldnt kill yourself because ppl DO love you... your family and you just have some issues you should tell your parents and your family that you feel unloved and you should talk to friends, counslers or ppl on here (like myself) about it... and you shouldnt cut yourself because it DOESNT make the pain go away... if you ever need to talk leave a message in my box... i hope i helped
]
Alrite, first off DO NOT KILL YOURSELF. Even if your family for some strange reason 'didnt love you' theres someone that does. Not to be all religious on you, but god loves you. Whether you believe it or think its fake or not its true. Plus you have such purpose in life. You may be so important to someone but they may just not express it enough. Plus your family is related to you, I know it in my heart they love you. Id bet my bottem dollar they love you to DEATH. They would probably be sooo upset if you ever left them. Plus killing yourself is quitting, giving up, you've let depression overcome you. Do you want to end your life knowing you've given up, knowing that you could have grown up and found the love of your life, had the chance to be famous... who knows. Your chances are endless.. your possibilites... LIMITLESS. But you need to hang in there. Get a therapist... explain how you feel. Get a journal... anything you can do to help yourself. Also.. try talking to your family. Just say, i feel like im not loved... i feel like you just dont like me. Be straight up.. and ask them if you'll help eachother make an effort to be somewhat non-argumentative. Please, whatever you do, dont leve this world by choice. I beg of you...
if you need help... IM x mercy me 14 x
]
DO NOT KILL YOURSELF.. PLEASE! and you shouldnt be cutting yourself either! your not the problem, trust me. it seems ur family just has some weird way of dealing w/ fights..believe me! killing yourself is something that you would regret on.. talk to your friends, even your family if you want, about how u feel. or go to some counseling..or dial like 1800-SUICIDE.. please listen to me .. i hope i helped =)
x00o gina <3
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question
| Next Question >>>
|
|