ok well me and my(guy)friend both like each other but we are not going out.(long story) but he said that he wanted to kiss me and then asked me what i thought and i said idk. and i still dont know. but i dont want to say yes and i dont want to say no. cuz if i say yes then we will end up going to far..and ill end up getting to close and dont want to get hurt. but if i say no then i might regret it. and one of my friends went on vaca for two weeks. the guy i like and her both liked eachother b4 she left. then all this happend and me and him held hands at the movies adn stuff. she will be back soon and idk what will happen.he might go back with her. i need some advice on what to do. im so confused..please help.
Mercy_x_Me answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 8:08 pm: if your friend liked him, but you just dont want to or arent going to bother going out with him, dont kiss him. B/c you'll kiss him for no reason, not go out with him, and nothing will become of your relationship. If your going to hurt your friend, its not even worth it especially if you wont even be going out. Im wishing you good luck... xoxoo [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
cheerchic2009 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:44 pm: if u both like each other, it shouldn't matter what she thinks. even if she stops talking to you, she will relize what is going on between u two and gradually become your friend again [ cheerchic2009's advice column | Ask cheerchic2009 A Question ]
SibYllE62389 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:37 pm: You should go out with him. Love is all about getting hurt, and even if you do get hurt, you'll be happy you had the experience of going out with him...
LTkaterinaSC answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:31 pm: ok well u said u liked him, and if u want to kiss him then i say go for it! but just tell him right off the bat that u dont want to go any further than kissing! he should respect that! and dont worry about ur friend on vacation,but if u want to know for ur self dont be afraid to ask him if he still has any feelings for her! u have a right to know hope i helped u [ LTkaterinaSC's advice column | Ask LTkaterinaSC A Question ]
kevin1986 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:31 pm: His first mistake was he asked to kiss you. You don't do that,you just fuckin kiss her. You can tell when they want it. Secondly,your saying I don't know is a bad sign(means no)and you can easily control how far you go. In life,you're gunna get hurt and you can't be scared by this. You can't score if you don't play,get it? Go out with the guy,make out with him,and see where it goes. [ kevin1986's advice column | Ask kevin1986 A Question ]
laurengotback015 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:23 pm: I think you should still talk to him and stuff, but before doing anything you should wait til your friend gets home and see what he does then. If he still wants to kiss you and be with you then I would go for it because you will def. regret it and wonder what woulda happened if you dont. Hope I helped. Sorry if I didn't [ laurengotback015's advice column | Ask laurengotback015 A Question ]
NicoleMarie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:20 pm: Before you jump into anything, wait until your friend gets back from vacation. In the meantime, let your guy friend know your concerns. Hopefully he will be honest with you. If he is sincere and he really wants to be with you, go for it. We all have to learn from our mistakes. It might be the best decision ever. [ NicoleMarie's advice column | Ask NicoleMarie A Question ]
lilangeldore answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:19 pm: ok well it is true that you might regret it later so you for it. kiss him. i mean come on you might not have another day to go it. Always think of today as your last day and live it up the best you can! Just talk to your other friend(gurl) and let her know how you feel about him and see how she feels and tell her whats going on and what she thinks you should do. but i really think that you should go ahead and kiss him but let him know that it is just a kiss and that is all. Hope i helped. if you need anything else just ask me. [ lilangeldore's advice column | Ask lilangeldore A Question ]
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