Ok i have a huge problem. See tomorrow i start school and my parents told me that i have to take this other person to school w/ me. Well He is just so happens to be my moms boss's little brother. Unfortunatly he is my age. i really dont want to take because i know my mom and his brother will try to hook us up. what should i do?
ixsAveDxmYsELf answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 7:06 pm: ahh you poor soul!!! talk to your mom and be like..."mom please dont try to do anything stupid and hook us up, cause its never going to happen." keep telling her what you think she's up to.
sportscutie13 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 7:06 pm: Just don't let his lil bro try to get u. Just b strong and maybe when u get home tell ur mom u think he's a good friend and he's just not ur romantic type. Nobody can make anything happen between u 2. [ sportscutie13's advice column | Ask sportscutie13 A Question ]
SwEeTeStSiN7 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:36 pm: If your mom and his brother try to hook you two up just say your not intrested and who knows this boy not even like you.Plus no one can make you go out with someone you don't want to. [ SwEeTeStSiN7's advice column | Ask SwEeTeStSiN7 A Question ]
MotherJune answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:31 pm: I don't know if you have even met him or not, but give the guy a ride. Before you do, tell your mom that you are NOT interested in him as a prospective boyfriend and you are doing this as a favor to HER {she'll love that part!}. It is possible that the guy feels uncomfortable like you do. However, if HE indicates that he is interested in you as a girlfriend at any time, {and you don't want to reciprocate}, use these approaches...
...a) Talk about other guys you are interested in and hope that he gets the hint.
...b) Tell him that you need to concentrate on school right now and you aren't looking for a relationship/commitment.
...c) Tell him that you would be glad to give him a ride, but you have a REALLY busy schedule for dating/getting together/whatever.
He may end up being a fun person to share a ride with occasionally and saying "hi" to when at school. You never know. You are in charge of what happens, so if he bugs you......tell your mom you tried helping out, but he'll need to make other arrangements for future transportation. [ MotherJune's advice column | Ask MotherJune A Question ]
LTkaterinaSC answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:25 pm: well i say if hes cute..theres no problem, but if he isnt or u dont get along or whatever then just tell ur mom ur not interested in him! and if nothing else yall can just become friends!! [ LTkaterinaSC's advice column | Ask LTkaterinaSC A Question ]
Mercy_x_Me answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:22 pm: Well, you dont walk to disobey your mom, but just talk to her in private. Just say straight out "Mom, Im not in to him so plez dont say anything to your boss". Your mom cant say to her boss your not taking him b/c that might just make him be mean and screw up her job... lol you get what i mean? If her relationship with her boss isnt extra friendly she might just be doing it to get on his/her good side. Lol.. maybe the kids nice. If your mom starts acting like she wants to hook you guys up.. just say I like someone else and Im really not interested. Good luck xoxo [ Mercy_x_Me's advice column | Ask Mercy_x_Me A Question ]
NicoleMarie answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:17 pm: No one can force you to date someone you dont want to. But maybe you should try to be his friend. You might get along well. But you can draw the line. Dont overreact just yet. give it time to get to know him (as a friend) [ NicoleMarie's advice column | Ask NicoleMarie A Question ]
twizzler2 answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:17 pm: just tell ur parents that u will take the other person to skool but u dont want to get into a relationship with him and if they cud respect that fact..that u wud respect them more...just act all nice to ur parents..they love it wen u do!! so just kinda make a Deal!!! hope it helps
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xXxpinky615xXx answered Wednesday August 4 2004, 6:17 pm: just tell her you're not interested... you can't be forced into something you don't want and don't try to act too nice to him just be on a friendship level and make it clear that that's all that you want out of him and tell your mom that too... honey you can't be forced into something that you don't want it's so stupid.... hope it helped
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