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how long does it take for the pill to actually work? bcus i want to have sex but i dont kno how lonq it takes ferit to werk. i took it for about 3-4 weeks now. (link)
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it should work by now i thinK?
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me and my boyfriend have been together for a long time now. And he just wants to be friends now(were still together right now). But we both admitted that if we were friends we wouldnt go out with anybody else for a long time. Also we know that if we're friends that were going to end up doing friends with benefits. But i no that either way were gonna end up getting back together if we do stuff. I don't know what to do. Should we become friends or try to work things out. I mean things are fine right now . But what do you think? (link)
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if u think that ull get back together when ur friends, just take a break and be friends for now if it makes him happy. but if its not like a serious problem ur having, stay together and try to work it out, if things dont work out, u can still always be friends!!
xOx* kandiie
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me and my bf are "into" eachother....if you know what i mean..yeah huh well we dunno what to do have sex with protection or without...you know. i cannot tell you the suffering i went thru a 6 year old every one wanted to know i was a lezbo. and should i prove to everyone im not maybe ill make out with my best friends sometimes but otherwise im not HELP! (link)
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use protection.. its always safer. u shouldnt have to proove things to people either. just tell them the truth
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Hey kandi i just wanted 2 say wad^ and 2 those lame ass wanna bez GDK All DAy every 24/7 and 2 timez a sunday ... FOLK KILLa,IPK KING MOTHERFUCKING LOVEN it HOLLA AT ME ROSEMONT AND CLEARMONT !!! /|\ FOlk Killa |\/\/\/\/| Bow down 2 the krown!!!
TwiTchy was HERE!!! (link)
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lol i love u TwiTchy!! come visit me at the beach babe!! i miss you
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A friend of mine told me you gave good advice and from what i saw on your advice page you do. I'm a 14 year-old guy and i need some help. I just got out of a relashoship with a girl i really liked. I'm gonna be going out to the movies with another girl this Saturday and i feel kinda guilty. I can't stop thinking about her. I know it's over but i don't know what to do. I mean i'm already going to homecoming wit this other girl. What if i run into my X there or she doesn't have a date or sumthing like that.
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its normal to feel a little bit guilty. if u still have feelings for her maybe u should try telling her that. if u run into ur X at homecomming then u could dance with her a little bit if u wanted to, or go up and talk to her.
drop one in anytime!
xOx* kandiie
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Ok im a 14 year old gurl - im 1/4 mexican n 3/4 white. im in love with this guy who is 16 and black but my parents arent really into me dating a black guy and i told him that i cant jus open up to my parents n tell them(im not close with my parents at all), he accepts that but since we've been together for almost 6 months i feel like i should tell my parents even tho i know they will be extremely upset wit my decision.right now im just really confused and im not really sure wat i should do even tho ppl r constantly telling me to tell my parents.its just not that easy!! (link)
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if u feel that its right to tell ur parents.. go for it. n if they are upset about it, just tell them how u feel about him and tell them that nothing can change the way u feel. just do what ur heart tells you to..i'm sure things will work out.
drop one in anytime!
xOx*kandiie
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Hey Does anyone know how to get rid of dark circles under the eyes. I want to know about stuff that i can make at home. Or something that i can buy that doesnt cost too much (link)
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i know some makeup tricks to solve that..
1) take a concealer stick and run it across the bottom of ur eyes
2) take liquid foundation and dab it over the spots
3) take face powed and pat it all down.. and they should be covered up!
feel free to drop one in anytime!
xOx*kandiie
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aight im 14 and i met this guy thats 16 and we were totally into eachother but i was at my cousins house who lives 2 hours away so its kinda like a long distance thing but i do go back to that area like once a month cuz i got other family that lives there and also he drives and has 2 cars so he said he was gana come visit me... we called eachother everyday for like 2 weeks but now it seems like he doesnt wanna talk to me... should i just forget about him or try harder?? i really like him but i just donno what to do :-( (link)
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next time u talk to him ask him how he really feels. and has he visited u yet? if he hasnt bring it uo in ur conversation n be like.. 'so when are we gonna see each other again?' and see what his reaction is.. if u do that.. write me back n tell me what happens!
xOx * Kandiie
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Ok lets see... Im a 14yr old female and i first had sex when i was 13... like a month after i turned 13... The guy wasnt muh bf...actually i met him at a party and he was 19. Ive had sed 7 times ever since then and onli 1 of those times was with muh bf. I kept like a journal of all the times and one morning b4 skool i didnt hvae time 2 write in the details and i brought it 2 skool. I accidently sat it down and this boy picked it up and showed it 2 everyone and then they ALL aprouched me and handed me it and said.. "so how much u charge baby?" they started laughing so i took muh journal and just walked away. Now everyone considers me such a slut. But i dont think so, sex is normal, everyone does it. and it feels so good!!! So im wondering honestly, am i a slut? (link)
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well.. yea sex is normal but if u do it with alot of people and all u can get infected or get STDS. i hope ya use protection tho to try and prevent it. but maybe u should stop havin sex with all these people who arent ur boyfriend. wait until u get into a serious relationship or until u feel comfortable around him, so that those guys wont think ur a slut and that they could get any when ever they wanted to from you.
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hey ! who punched me ? (link)
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iono but someone punched me too!!
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candace i am not a chink why does u say that. i dont even like rice. (link)
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...Kim...jz hush ur mouth
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Im a 14 yr. old and ive liked this gurl 4 like 5 months now and ive wanted 2 ask her out every day ive liked her but i jus dont have enough courage 2 ask her. Ive tried to tell her how i fell several times but she thinks im joking. What should i do? (link)
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tell her to listen to u and take u seriously. then tell her how u feel about her and jz ask her out then.
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hey, i'm a 14 yr old girl, and my question is about this guy that i like. he told one of my friends that he likes me too. and i went to a party, about a week ago, and he was there, and we would talk, and laugh, and i noticed him looking at me whenever he would make a joke. and then i talked to him the next day and he said that he thought i looked pretty. but now he has a girlfriend, and i don't know what to do. i feel like he was just leading me on, and it hurt me. but i still like him a lot. so, what do you think? (link)
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tell him how u feel.. tell him that he hurt u because of what he did and maybe he does like u he just didnt want u to know?
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hey, i'm 14 and i'm a girl, and there's this guy i like, and he told a friend of mine he liked me too. and i went to a party about a week ago, and he was there... and we talked and laughed... and it was fun. then next day he told me that he thought i looked pretty... but now he's going out with someone else. and i really like him... and i don't know what to do. i feel heartbroken, and i feel like he was just leading me on... what do u think? (link)
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he might have just been leading you on b/c guys do that all the time. maybe u should tell him how u feel about it so he can understand better
xOx* kandiie
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okay, i have this best frined, and i mean she means the world to me we do everything together and i wouldnt do anything to hurt her. but sumtimes, i find myself ditching her. like, if i have plans to do sumtin wit another friend and she calls me up and i already have plans, i say sure, and then i ditch her and go to another persons house becuz i made plans wit them first. i duno wat to do, i wanan stop doing this, i dont even know why i do it. because i love my best friend so much. i jus am like scared to say no or something. am i stupid for this? (link)
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no ur not stupid for this! but try making plans with all ur friends including her, or have a sleepover and make plans with her more often. dont b afraid to tell her u already have plans when u do. thats better than ditching her
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ok candace hey i dont no where to begain..ok welll it all started one day when i was at the mall with my friend[not gonna say names] but yeah we where at the mall havein a good ass time..then see started to make fun of my name sayin that it is a hilbilly name n she always tells me to go feed the pigs when there isnt any pigs around and we dont even live on a farm!!! i tell her to milk the cows but that dont make any scince ether scine there are none cows in my naberohood. then we got into a big ass fight then she pulled my bag and the bag riped open n all my stuff went everywhere..and i bought a thong earlery that day n it smells like bannanas n it landed on some old guys head then he was like "what smells like bannanas?" all confused about it..then she was talkin all ghetto in then i was like "why u talkin like my people?" then she was like "SHUT UP ur white to!!!" [yes i am white but i dont like to say i am -_-] ok well ne ways that hurt my feelings because then she said i was gay! then she was like "GO EAT SOMETHING SKINNY" so i did becse i like to eat the didnt hurt me alot all because yeah i like to eat i mean who dosent like to eat i love to eat eating is soo much fun fun fun fun fun!!! n then i walked past a picture place and there was a naked baby n i was like O O NAKED BABY!!!!! so..umm yeah what do i do becasue i feel so confused n sad??? (link)
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um well.. maybe ur name is a hill billy name and that thong thing.. thats really funny.. i think i saw it happen.. at the joliet mall.. the guy was lookin all confused Het! what smells like banannas!? n maybe u shouldnt try to b ghetto when ur white n u need to STOP eating to maybe u will get fatter b/c ur too skinny even tho u always eat eat eat eat eat!! n next time u c a naked baby.. try not to freak out ok?
kirstie you are so gay for writing this. now go feed the pigs while i milk the cows.. and kim go cook some rice! lolol
xOx* kandiie
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yeas hi candace i am a girl and i am so gay! like i am not a lazbo but i jsut ack gay ALL the time i mean ALL ALL the time. i just cant help it i dont no y i ack like this. mabey its just because have a friend who makes me ack gay because she is so gay to! please help me not be so gay all the time.. becasue i feel so gay!! (link)
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lolol hi kirstie i know ur a girl and i kno ur soo gay and how ur not a lezbo jz gay.. n im sorry i make u act gay.. its b/c u make me act gay ttoo!! lol n remember u hafta b gay allt he time.. not b boring like NOT LAUGHING and being COOL like SOME PEOPLE want u to do!! lol u are REALLY gay but its alright..
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is it bad to lose ur virginity really younge? with a boyfriend u been going out with for like 5 months? what if i get pregnet? what if i get a deiasse? what if the condom broke? what if someone heard me? dose it soppose to hurt the first time? is it ok if i do it again and again? is it alright if i do it outside? what if something got in me? do u bleed? (link)
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no its not bad.. and since i know who wrote this.. if u get pregnet ill help u and if u get a disease ill take care of u n if the condom breaks pray u dont have a kid.. if someone heard u.. laugh at them! yea its suppose to hurt the first time and yea do it as many tiems as u awnt.. i dont care! LOL and outside is fine.. jz warn people like ur friends not to ever go in those spots.. hah and if something got in u.. go to the doctor!! n yea u bleed sometimes..
lol ur soo funny.. i cant say the name of who wrote it.. but i
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Hi im 13yrs old n im going to 8th grade. I jst started seeing this guy which is really cool, but our friends r veryyy different like is friends r the like hip-hop kinda ppl n my friends r like rock ppl. Its really hard because i have no clue wat they r tlking bout wen im round them. What shud i do...?
Frustrated... (link)
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tell him how u feel and maybe he can help you out.. or just b nice to his friends they'll still accept u
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candace is a sexy beast (link)
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ok thanx
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