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What should I do?
Ok, I have been with my bf for a year and a half. We both really love eachother, but we think that we both need to date other people eventually because we are too young to make a lifelong commitment right now (I'm 17 he's 19, I was 15 when we got together). So right now we are just kind of waiting it out to see what happens. Then the other day,I was hanging out with my ex-bf (the only other one I've ever had) because we have always stayed really good friends after we broke up. I hadn't seen him in forever, and all of a sudden it just seemed like there was a major attraction. Before I knew it we were sharing an awesome passionate kiss, and then I was crying because I love my bf, and I have never done anything like cheating or lying before. My ex was being so sweet. He just held me and comforted me. By the way he also has a gf. So now I'm just going along like nothing happened. My bf doesn't even know I hung out with the ex, and I don't know what to do. I refuse to tell my bf, but I wonder if I should break up with him, but I don't really want to. To make matters worse, I can't get the kiss out of my head. It was just really good. But since my ex has a gf, there's no hope of us getting together either even if I do break up with the bf. I love my boyfriend so much and the though of losing him ove this only makes me realize that more. So yeah any advice would be great. Thanks.
-Utterly confused-
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
DON'T TELL YOUR BF! its going to make matters worst and even though he deserves the truth the only possible outcome is: he is going to end things up! Tell him you both need time to see other people but that you guys are going to try again in 6 months (or whatever) and date again. You ex has another gf and he cheated on her that proves he may cheat on you if you guys get together again. so i would advice you to just be friends with him or maybe you can have a summer crush and date someone for a while.
good luck~!
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