i have a thing for this kid that works at the cvs near me. i dont know anything about him except his name, which i got off his name tag, and that he has to be at least 18. he flirted with me one time i went in there and then i went back constantly for a couple weeks to try to start some sort of conversation but he was never there. then one day i saw a girl that works there walking to work and i asked her if he still worked there, and she said he did. that night i went to cvs and he didnt flirt at all and beyond that i didn't find him to be particularly friendly. so was he having a bad day or did she tell him that i asked about him and now hes all "eww" and is rejecting me? should i go back and try again? what should i say? im such a dork. but im a cute dork.
A.Good.Lie answered Thursday July 29 2004, 11:27 am: CVS, huh? Interesting...
So he was having a bad day. People are allowed to have them every now and then. You shouldn't take it to any offence. And like you said, you're a cute dork. EVERYBODY loves cute dorks, so why would he be any different?
But if it was because he heard you asking about him, and he decided not to be friendly, that's just stupid. And bratty. Would you really want to keep wasting your time on someone who judges you after having a single conversation with you?
That's probably not the situation, but I say you try to find out. Don't go in the VERY next day, though, wait a little so he has time to cool off if he did, in fact, have a bad day. And if he still seems a little pissy, then he's not worth it. Move on and find a guy who won't judge you by just one conversation.
xbella_47 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 11:20 am: Hey, well maybe he was just havinq a bad day..maybe he wasn`t..there`s no other way to find out but flirtinq with him more...what do ya have to lose! *rate me =)* [ xbella_47's advice column | Ask xbella_47 A Question ]
HotStuff answered Thursday July 29 2004, 10:49 am: You should go back there and talk to him. If he flirted with you the 1st time maybe the 2nd time he was having a bad day. Don't go there everyday just enough to get his phone or something. tell him you want to get to know him. good luck~!~ [ HotStuff's advice column | Ask HotStuff A Question ]
icey0990 answered Thursday July 29 2004, 10:20 am: The girl might have told him but this doesnt necassarily mean hes rejecting you. Maybe he doesnt know how to react, maybe hes shy,confused, etc.
lilsexyangel answered Thursday July 29 2004, 10:06 am: try again and try bein nice even tho the 1st time maybe he didn't catch on or notice u all it is is trial and error if u try it once and it didnt work then try it 1 more time if he is an ass to you again just forget him and find someone else to flirt with or go out with, hope everything goes great [ lilsexyangel's advice column | Ask lilsexyangel A Question ]
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