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havin trouble with guys!
ok, im a 12 year old girk and ive neva officially gone out with some1. well, this nice guy, whoz a grade older than me asked me out. well, i had known him 4 awhile and i thot he seemed like a great guy. well, i said yes, partly becauz i just wanted a boyfriend. now im not sure if i shud continue goin out with him. i mean, and i goin out with him 4 the wrong reasons. i just dont no. i think i shud continue goin out with him but wont other people in my grade think im weird if im goin out with an 8th grader? well, i dunno if i shud break up with him or just give it a try.... HELP!!! he also always acts shy around me, i try 2 get him 2 loosen up but he still acts weird. THANZ I RATE!!! *****:)
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people normally dont care who you go out with as long as the guy isnt younger than the girl..thats when most people think its wierd! i think its all bs..other people shouldnt be concerned about relationships theyr not in!! but if u rly like the guy n wish he was more open, then stay with him n make him feel comfortable around u. but if u dont liek him n ur just in it for the label, thats a bad idea. dont lead him on! ask urself why ur really goin out w. him..n if its the right reasons...stay in it n if its the wrong reasons then break ^ w. him!!
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For starters you should never go out with someone because you just want a boyfriend!! You need to find someone you have really got to know. I don't think anyone is going to think that you are weird for dating someone who is older. My boyfriend is a year older than I am too.
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If you have feelings for this boy then you should continue going out with him. Just because he is a grade higher doesn't mean anything. If people make comments to you of your boyfriend because of your age difference they are probably just jealous. If you don't have feeling for this guy, and you are just going out with him to have a boyfriend, I think you should break up, or at least give him a try and get to know him . Let him know that you are there for him, and maybe he won't act so shy. I hope I helped you!
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He seems nice but you are right, you are dating him for the wrong reasons. If you like him give it a try! maybe try as friends and take things slower. He probably acts shy around you because he likes you ! lol .. good luck ..
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If you like him even just a little keep going out with him. Otherwise, you're just playing with him and thats not ncie. You don't want to hurt him by only pretending you like him. No, other kids don't think its weird. And if they do, who cares? Give it a try. Boys are weird, thats not his fault ;-)
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