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boyfriend movin..help!!
hey everyone, I am 15 and I need some advice...my boyfriend of 9 months is leavin and movin to Oregon in a few weeks. I live in Florida and I wanna try to do the whole long distance thingy but I dont think that he wants to. I love him soooo much and want to be with him. Does it really work? Should couples that are in love try it? Please Help ME!!! xo0x ~manda [ aka confused]~
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maybe u should try talking to him about the long distance thing and get his input on it. if he wants to then go for it! n yes it does really work with some couples. you just have to trust each other enough to stay faithful. who knows.. maybe u guys can visit each other!
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well my cousin had a long distance relationship and she lives in Europe and she wus dating someone from a diffrent country and they never saw each other .. but they stuck wid it and now they are engaged. If yew think thats it`s worth trying to have a long distance relationship..then go for it..but if yu really dont see a future wid dis kidd den break it off now and try to get over him bc once he moves alot of pain will be involved. It`s better you get over him then deal wid pain. Hope i helped `nd good luck =) rate meh plz
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To be honest darling if he was in love with you he wouldn't be so reluctant to try a long distance relationship. In fact he wouldn't have to give the decision a thought. So with that in mind do you want to try to make this work? Perhaps a 'we'll stay good friends, we'll keep in touch but we'll move on relationship wise' is the best route.
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Long distance sucks. You'll never see him,he'll never see you. It's sad when somebody moves,but you have to move on. I can see why he doesn't want to do long distance. You only think you're in love until the next hott guy comes along and you start going out with him. Say goodbye,cry for awhile,and get over it.
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You're fucking 15 years old, what the fuck are you thinking? There is no fucking way a 15 year old can possible get into a serious relationship let alone a long distance one. Simple fact is, he's gonna fucking other chicks left and right, so dump the fucker before he comes to visit and gives you an std of some sort.
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Manda,
If you're really in love, and you think you could handle the long distance part of the relationship - hardly seeing him, but still remaining faithful, etc - then I say go for it.
You've gotta talk it out with him, though, and find out of he wants to try it.
I think it really works if you make it work. You have to work at relationships in general - and you'd have to be willing to work hard at this one to keep it going.
It's up to you two. Talk it out and decide what to do.
I hope everything works out!
-Siren =)
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well u need to find out if he feels the same like that when he moves there he wont cheat on u or nething b-cuz guys (hate to say is true) that have LONG distance relationships tend to have another gf where they live which has happened to me last yr tho but im jus sayin find out if he feels the same
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you could at least try it..but itd be really hard!!! if u do try it..dont be suprised if it ends soon after!! but if u think yll r tht in love w. each other then it wouldnt hurt 2 try! gl w. the whole thing
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ok hun! LD relationships suck! i've been in plany of them! i live in GA and i've dated guys that live in NC TX...and they never wrked! i eman u could make it wrk! but it's to hard on your life...ull get really stressed out on finding away to see each other...fights will soon form...and then when he wants something...and ur not there to give it to him his going to get it from someone else...not trying to be mean but pointing out the facts...yeah and Oregon is jst to far away...ur parents would get made bout the phone bill bC of the LD calls...and yall could write but it want be the same...and yall probably would eventually find someone else! trust me on this one girl! i've been in plany LD relationships!!...let me know how everthing goes and i hoped i helped!
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If you and your boyfriend are truley in love, anything is worth a try! You should always be together. And even if you dont go, youll always know that u love eachother! RATE ME
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If you really love him, ask him if thats what he wants to do. ive had a few longdistances before, sometimes it works out sometimes it doesnt, its just about how much you both want it to really work
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You can try it, but I honestly think it will not work because you are so young. And your boyfriend is probably acting like he doesn't wanna do the whole long distance thing because he probably feels it won't work anyway. All I can tell you is that if it doesn't work out, don't feel so bad. I mean I know it will hurt, but like I said you are young, and atleast you have some good memories about a really great guy. Hope I helped and Good Luck! :)
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okeyz i think long distance relationshipz end up being realli hard, maybe thats why he duzzent wanna. he prolly wants optionz open and stuff. if u guyz r in love, it will be extra hard long distance, u can try it, but if it duzzent work out, dont say i didnt warn u! lolz. okey hope i helped!!
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