theres this guy i like alot and he asked me out today (like 1 in the morning type deal)...he already meet the parents but my mom and dad said his to old...he jst turned 18 today...and ill be 16 in dec...my parents don't know where dating i haven't told them yet...and i kind of don't want to right know bC they told me a couple days agao that he was to old...and i wanna know wat can i do to get my parents to apporve of him so me and him can go out together...w/ out me haveing to sneak behind my parents back bout it!??
Pink_Flamingo answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 8:46 pm: Well since he is over 18 it is kind of a problem. If you ever had sex with him he could get arrested. Its not really a good idea to take someone over 18 if you are under 18. [ Pink_Flamingo's advice column | Ask Pink_Flamingo A Question ]
LilMia811 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 7:48 pm: They are probably just worried that because tyler is 18 he will try to pressure you to have sex or something like that. Just let them know that you are 16, and you are not stupid, you would never let a guy take advantage of you, and you now right from wrong. [ LilMia811's advice column | Ask LilMia811 A Question ]
HollyAnn2282 answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 7:08 pm: I'd say like talk about him a lot and how great he is, maybe bring him around as friends and have your parents see that he is a good guy! Talk to them and let them know that you will be 16 in december thats only 2 years apart.. Tell them that if something bad was to happen that you know to tell right away and dont let things go on and that you wouldnt be pressured into things that you dont want to do. They are just worried about that. Good luck hope you get what you want
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HotStuff answered Wednesday July 28 2004, 6:21 pm: You have to prove your parents that you are mature enough to date older guys. Tell them that you really like this guy and you are trying to be honest and open about it, because you trust them enought to talk to them about it rather than to sneak behind their backs.. good luck~! [ HotStuff's advice column | Ask HotStuff A Question ]
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