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my best friend is really distant


Question Posted Sunday August 29 2004, 2:42 pm

I don't know what to do abt this anymore, my best friend (not so best anymore) is always ignoring me and trying to control me. when i'm in a group with her she makes me feel really small, but when it's one on one it's not that bad. whenever i call her to chat she starts playing her guitar or she's like "i'm eating so i have to go" or "can u call back i'm watching a show" (when she has it taped!!) i'm getting really tired of it but she's friends with all my other friends so i can't just "drop her". i've already told her that i think she ignores me a lot and her response is "oh". what should i do??? plz help

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x0x_summer_x0x answered Sunday August 29 2004, 6:50 pm:
maybe she's just jealous that of you and wishes to be more like you so she tries to put u down. it happens a lot to people. maybe you should start talking to her less and calling her less to let her know how it feels to be you. if it seems like she doesnt really care, find a new bff! good luck! [H][U][G][S] ~Summer

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LaDiixDeE4Ya answered Sunday August 29 2004, 5:03 pm:
If she makes you feel small then i dont know why you bother beiing her friend anymore..? but i sort of know how you feel. if you 2 always used tah hang out alot den the case might be tht she got sick of you. if that is tha case dont worry bout iht bc it happens to every relationshyp at least once. or maybe her feelings changed and she matured or something like tht and shes just bored wid you ( no offense and all). i dont mean tah make you look bad but i thynk u should stop trying to be her friend .. you know say your hi and byes and w.e but dont try to get her tah like you how she used tah. If she relle cared for you den she wuld change her ways. If she doesnt mind the not talking as much thyng den u knoe shes not exactly the type of friend you would want tah have. You should give her space , time to realize what shes missing out on and giving up on. Hope i helped ya ^_- .

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Randomduck641 answered Sunday August 29 2004, 4:44 pm:
You're friend's retarded.. stop tryin to call her and what not.. make other friends

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