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how much is over protective when it comes to your bf. mines lives 15 mints away, but different schools different friends, i love him and trust him! but i know he used to be a player, and some of his friends dont like me because i actully broke his ways, i know he wouldnt cheat, but when i talk to some of his friends that are girls online i just get unconfrotable and feel bad when i hear things that he didnt wanna talk to me about, am i over reacting if im just not confortable when he talks to other women?
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hmm... telling other girls stuff that he can't even tell you... thats a litle strange... maybe you should ask him about this... otherwise don't really over react about these things, he's your man and you know it
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it is alright to be uncomfortbale sometimes but love is a person that would do nothing to hurt u and would allways make u happy.
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Hun, i understand you completly. I'm glad you trust him. I'm also glad you broke his player ways!!!! Screw the friends who don't like you ... they're just mad because you changed your boy into a man. You are nto over reacting when you get uncomfortable about your boyfriend talking to other women. It's a normal feeling, that is very hard to deal with. You trust him though, and you know he wouldn't cheat. So everytime you feel uncomfortable, think of that. That is what I do. When you worry about things like that, you add a whole bunch of stress on you and your relashinship, so calm down, and you should actually just tell your boyfriend, "I get a little comfortable when you talk to other girls" or even "I get jealous easily, but i trust you, and I know you wouldn't hurt me."
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I'd be careful with this guy. An old player hmm? If they have done it before, they can do it again. If you trust him though, that's good. People DO change and people DO need second chances. I don't blame you for feeling uncomfortable or jealous. If it keeps bugging you, talk to him and tell him it's important to you that you two talk. If you are uncomfortable when he talks to other girls, you should try and give him some space. I mean, you can talk to guys without cheating on your boyfriend right? So your boyfriend can talk to girls without cheating on your also. Give him a chance and talk it out.
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If he is saying things and doing things that he doesn't want you to know about, then he must know that he's doing something bad.
Your not over reacting at all. Tell him how you feel. If he doesn't respect how your feeling and stop doing these things that make you feel like crap, then he's not worth it. No matter how much you think your in love, you'll never be able to be happy if you can't trust him when he's talking to other girls. I know from personal experience...
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I think your reaction is perfectly valid. The guy used to be a player?
I say once a player, always a player. But then, I had a bad experience with one, so I'm kind of biased.
I suppose if you're worried about him just TALKING to other girls, it is a bit much. As long as you know he won't cheat, relax about him talking to other girls. Talking isn't cheating, right? ^_^
Hope this helped a bit!
-Siren =)
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yea , i think you are over reacting. If he doesnt get uncomfortable when you talk to other guys then you shouldnt care if he talks to other girls. It just means he has friends , and you said you know he wouldnt cheat. Maybe he just needs someone else to talk to sometimes. Hope we helped ! rate us please !
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