HE IS SUFFICIENT God says...I made her...she is different. She's unique. With love i formed her in her mothers womb. I fashioned her with great joy I remember with great pleasure, the day i created her. (Psalm 139:13-16) I love her smile. I love her ways. I love to hear her laugh. And the silly things she says and does. She brings me great pleasure. This is how i made her. (Psalm 129:17) I made her pretty and not beautiful. Because i knew her heart. And knew she would be in vain...I wanted her to search out her heart. And to learn that it would be Me in her. That would make her beautiful. That would draw friends to her. (1 Peter 3:3-5) I made her in such a way that she would need me. I made her a little more lonesome than she would like to be...Only because i need for her to lean and depend on me. I know her heart. I know if I had not made her like this she would go on her own way and forget me...her creator. (Psalm 65:5-8) I have given her many good and happy things...Because i love her. (Psalm 84:11, Romans 8:23) Because i love her, i have seen her broken heart..and the tears she cried alone. I have cried with her, and had a broken heart too. (Psalm 56:8) Many times she has stumbled and fallen alone, Only because she would not hold my hand. So many times i have sat back and sadly watched her go her merry way alone. Only to watch her return to my arms, sad and broken. And now she is mine again...I made her and then i bought her...because i LOVE her. (Romans 5:8) I have to reshape her and remold her...To renew her to what i had planned for her to be. It has not been easy for her or me. (Jeremiah 29:11) I want her to be conformed to my image...this goal i have set for her because i love her...(Jeremiah 31:3)
and HE always will...
E-mail: longhornsroc44@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: texas
Occupation: model,dancer,cheerleader, and student
Age: 13
AIM: m3mOri3SdOfAd3
Yahoo: ashleybrook09
Member Since: July 24, 2004
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hi ashley! im just asking if you see ur boyfriend pretty much flirting with another girl but i know my self that i flirt with some other guyz i dont know if he thinks the same way but... it just makes me mad when i see them together ya know! n like i dont know if hes mad at me for flirting with some other guyz cuz hes told me that he doesnt like me flirting so what should i do when he flirts with this one girl? (link)
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ok well i knoe how i am i flirt w/ alot of guys to just tlk to ur bf see wat he thinks of this chika n if u feel any threat just simply tell him how u feel if he cnt tlk to u bout this he isnt worth is--aShLeY bRoOk--
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Well me and my boyfriend have been goin out for 3 months starting tewday...and i have this problem with cutting ( my wrist ) and i havn*t told hym untill yesterday....and he got really mad at me and said i either have tew stop cutting or i have tew brake up with me cuz e doesnt wanna risk losing someone he really loves......but i think he is just running away from the problem.....wat dew u think he is doing (link)
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well i thin kthat if u r resorting to cutting ur wrists then u r running from the problem i mean if u have to do some10 like that u either wnt attention or some10 is terribly wrong in ur life i use to cut n i would say it was 1 roblem but bringing evrything in the open helped me relize that i was stupid i have stopped for like 3 or 4 years now the scars r gone n evry1 knows i use to trust me things will get better i think this guy just has u n his best intrests i meen it does hurt losin some1 u luv trust me i have lost 4 pl i really cared 4 but i say try to stop cuttin if this guy really cares 4 u he will help ya threw the wrst times of stopping!!
-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends--
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if a grl liked u and u like a grl and if u ask her out she will say no but in her mind she will say yes so wat should i do?
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well that is a verry confusing question but as i get it u like some1 n they like u but when u asked them out they said no but really wanted to say yes?? i am going to base my answer on that so:
ok well why would this girl say no when she liked u have u ever thought maybe like this girl is having some issues of thinking how she really likes u maybe she likes u as a friend talk to her about it n get bac to me!!
-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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thers this guy i really like and he says he likes me too we dont really live THAT far away frum eachother but we always say wer gonna see eahtother and we never do i really like him our plans just never work out...any ideas n where we can go?/ (link)
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ok well if u really like him n he really likes u then u should have no problem meeting up to do something maybe ur plans dnt eva wrk out bc they rnt suppose to maybe ur not meeting up for a reason or maybe not u guyz just need to try to do somethin together u dnt have to do it just alone have all ur friends meet up at the movies or some10 mayb u can c him threw that way!!
-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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that girl wants to meet me at six flags 2morrow cuz Im goin with my friends... I think she's trying to win my trust and try and seperate me n Aaron! fuck this shit I'm not believeing her btu ims till gunna talk to aaron about it just incase cuz I dont like to get hurt even tho its a part of life.. thanx! (link)
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well when you see her, you should just be politely distant. But you are right, you should talk to him about it, m/b even ask him to ask her to stop (if after confronting him you believe he is telling you the truth)if he doesnt want to ask her to stop or doesnt want to get in the middle of it something is probably going on between them and if there isnt then he should have no problem confronting her !!-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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Like 5 of my best friends are cheerleaders..and they talk about cheerleading 24/7..and i feel left out alot of the time. How can i feel not left out? (link)
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well 1st of all i am a cheerleader n all so there isnt much here i cn help ya w/ but muh friend is goin to help too:
Hey, im not a cheerleader and my friend ^ is 1 tho. She talks about it alot but i dont feel left out, i just talk about things i do. You could compare your coaches or how hard the practices are. If she(he) talks about a competition, you talk about yours or (if you saw it) how funny some ppl looked!!-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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I REALLY REALLY like this guy, but he only sees me as just a friend, is there anything i can do that might change his mind??
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ok well there isnt much you can do to change a guys mind about how he fills you could always wear something tighter around him but u might come off a little too slutty. Maybe he is suffering 4rm a former long relationship(or is in 1 still!) and needs time to think everyting over. Keep trying tho!!-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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I dont know who to believe but some girl keeps telling me things aaron does ((bad things)) like cheating or.. brekaing up with ppl after a week but its been longer than a weekk.. and i duno who to believe i didnt tell aaron about ti he doesnt seem like that kind of person THOO what do I DOOO!!!!!!????
Signed- confused by love (link)
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ok who do u trust more, ur BF or SOME GIRL!!! seriously, just think about wut u put. You shouldnt believe wut SOME GIRL sez b/c wut really matters it wut u think. U even sed that he doesnt seem the type to do ne thing like that so it is probably not true. Maybe she liked him at one time or she still does, and is jealous of you two, she is probably trying to break you up!!-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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Hi I am a 16 year old female I have a boyfriend but in a way I think he might be cheating on me because one of his best friends will either call me or talk to me on the internet and tell me all kinds of stuff about my boyfriend and when I talk to my boyfriend about it he denies it all. And his friend is even telling my best friend about it all. My boyfriend and I have a long distance relationship and I'm not sure what to do. Should I break up with him or talk to him some more about what his friend is telling me? (link)
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m/b his friend likes U and he wants you 2 to break up. but there is a chance that he is a nice guy and he just wants the best 4 u, in the end just go with who you trust as more reliable and trustworthy!!-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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Does anybody know where I could find a site to host my .ini, .swf, .mp3, .exe, and .bat files? I need to upload these in order to get my RadioBlog working for my site. So, any of you Advicenators have a clue? Answers will be greatly appreciated. (link)
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go 2 pureflamez.com!!-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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ok it says my pic is too big...does n e one else have this prob. and how do i change it? ive tried resizing it but that doesnt work PPLZZZZ help me!!
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ok, WHAT THE #%@& R U TALKING ABOUT! WHO CARES IF UR PIC SUX AND ITS 2 BIG! THIS IS ADVICE NOW HTML HELP CLASS! GET A LIFE!!!-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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Ok, i am very stressed out! All the time I am having dreams about Elmo, the cookiemonster, and Big Bird! Once i woke up after a really scary one about me making out with ELMO!!!!!I dont noe wut to do! plz help me!! Do you know wut is causing this?? I mean...I am a little obese, and i have about 1 bag of cookies a day. And there is the fact that I sleep in my dad's underwear. HELP ME! I am currently 13 yrs old. I currently weigh 187 pounds and I am currently a girl. And my name is currently Jessica Jackson. (link)
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ok well Jessica, maybe the dreams about cookie monster is b/c u think that u R a giant cookie monster. You are trapped inside the dome of adolescence and you dont noe how to project your feelings of anxiety and dispair so you eat. Your love-life is probably lacking so you now feel romantically attracted to your father. These feelings are completely natural! You could try to lessen the amount of food you eat, especially cookies. If you do, you could probably lose weight and therefor become involved in a long-term relationship that isnt involving your dad or a sesame street character-- rememba my advice and tell your friends
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I dont believe in God, or Satan, or heaven and hell. I think its just a story told to us to try and make us act like better people. Please comment. (link)
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ok so u think it is a story just told to make us all act better right? well have you ever heard of the band switchfoot? do u knoe that they r a christian band? most there songs are about god n how hard it is being brought up in the christian world n im not going all psycho religion on u but i am sayin that i am a christian n i have thought b4 what if we go to heaven n it is switched around heaven is really hell but then i remember that isnt possible bc The Holy Bible is the truth it is the only book that u can actually prove evrything in that book like the walls of jerico u go to jerico prestent day turkey n what do u find? little hills n stuff were actually along time ago could ave stod a wall that is just the glory of the truth that evrything can b proven im just sayin think about it!
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(I'm 14) I've been going out with "James" for 8 months, and at the beginning it was all great, except for his ex, Sarah, who, I know for a fact part of the reason he went out with her is because she's...She'll MAKE you go out with her, she has a way of making you, because she can't get anybody because of a bunch of reasons but she's a VERY nasty person (if u get what I mean) and not even pretty, or popular and just...horrible. She accused me of stealing him, and about a month later, came up with a note that he supposedly written to her, stating that he loved me, but still wanted to be friends with benefits with him, and also said that she could go over to his friends house and they could "have sex since i haven't had it in awhile" The second he saw it he ripped it up and nearly bit Sarah's head off, was the angriest I've ever seen him, and really upset since I refused to talk to him. Sarah though, has been known to do ANYTHING to get a guy, and she's known for forging handwriting, and most of her old friends who now hate her, were pretty sure she forged it. It looked a little bit like his writing, but barely, and the way she said "aren't you going to dump him?" Put it into my head that it wasn't him. So I forgave him, then a couple months later she came up with some more "notes" and one time he looked at me pleadingly and just said "I didn't write those" which I forgot about, again, but they always stuck in my mind. Then she gave a note to my friend supposedly from him that said he still wanted to be friends with benefits, but HE had a note from HER that she had written to him, with HER wanting to be friends with benefits, she admitted it, that she had forged the note from him, and BEGGED me for forgivness, with bull notes saying "I'm SO sorry i'll never do it again" I'd never been more upset in my life, because I didn't know who to believe, and it took a toll on me that I did some things to myself I'm not proud of (think hard...) Eventually I "forgave" her, pretending to be her friend. None of it ever happened again, but that had been the third time. Ever since the first time, I've been paranoid, always imaginging him making out with her, and I know they did A LOT of stuff last summer. And now with summer, I hardly see him because we live a whole 5 miles away (sarcasm) and he always has to work at night (which i know is true, I've been there when he's working) and I've only seen him three times since summer started. I broke up with him once, right after summer started, because another guy wanted to go out with me, a guy that I knew I wouldn't have to worry about him cheating and a guy who could go to movies with me, even if I didn't love him, I could trust him. I lasted 3 days of crying and screaming to no1 inparticular before I broke down and went back out with him. A part of me is telling myself that I have to break up with him because everytime he has to go on the phone, even after the best conversations that last for hours, a cynical part of me thinks "Is he going to see Sarah?" and the part that for some reason he never wants me to go to his area makes me even more paranoid than I already am. It haunts me, and I know it's not healthy, but I also know if I break up with him, I'll be more miserable than I've ever been, but a tiny part of me thinks it's better in the end, but I have no idea. I love him, he's wonderful, he makes me feel wanted and loved and he's just...Wonderful. But the thing with Sarah, and that he doesn't want me arond where he lives (btw, two of his ex's live there) makes me paranoid. And I need to decide now, because I can't go on living with those thoughts of Sarah in the back of my mind. Sorry this was so dang long, and help would be GREATLY appriciated. (link)
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ok so this guy ur in love with right? well then can't u trust him i meen sure it sounds jerky that he doesnt want u to ocme to his house but maybe that is because like his parents dont let him have girls over or something im sory to say this but if i was in ur situation i probly wouldnt brake up w/ him but i wouldnt call him or anything for like 2 weeks n if he doesnt call ou then something is going on and u need to kick him aside n try to get over him take a nice long bubble bath with dried out rose pedals in it(they sooth the tesion in ur skin and help you relax), read a nice romantic book n cry as much as you need if all else fails spend a weekend vegging out food makes the world a whole lot better!!-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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i am 15 f and i really like this guy 15 m and he like me back we just dont ever talk about it and i think we will end up goin out i just dont know if i should tell him that i have never even kissed someone and i know he had done stuff with girls so should i just go with it and not tell him or do u think he can tell? (link)
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ok so u dnt have to tell him take it from me guys wont knoe there stupid like that and if u really like this guy maybe later on u cn tell himn but dnt tell him now bc he will xpect u r waiting 4 him to kiss u then he will be really scared bout it the whole time u guys r together n u will neva b able to have a really fun tim together!-- rememba muh advice n tell ur friends
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